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dog. Sorry that may be a little offensive for some, but my husband has grown a strong bond with our new puppy that we adopted 6 weeks ago. This pup has an odd propensity to lick my husband's jeans were his privates are. I'm nervous bestiality is taking place and tried to get rid of the dog but he won't part with it. I feel sick even thinking about it and threw up last night 10 minutes after I witnessed another jean-licking event. My husband is a computer nerd that hasn't been interested in sex for over a month. What could I do if this is happening? I couldn't call the police because he's the main provider for me and my children. BUt is this good grounds for divorce and is it possible to claim alienation of affection even though it with an animal? I have been contemplating divorce for over a year but my chances are slim it getting much support unless an affair occurred. Thanks.

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Oh my God I think my head just exploded. :eek:

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Is the dog male or female?

 

Likely the dog is trying to dominate the husband's attention. All it needs is proper training.

 

It's a natural behavior (in the dog). I won't comment on the husband :)

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wow. Um.... how about installing a camera to tape your H's behavior? Like in the room where the computer is?

He might be using this poor dog while looking at porn?

Ugh..

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Are you for real with this question?

 

It's a puppy, it's going to lick and bite and do all kinds of crazy things.

 

I think you have a problem not your husband.

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dog. Sorry that may be a little offensive for some, but my husband has grown a strong bond with our new puppy that we adopted 6 weeks ago. This pup has an odd propensity to lick my husband's jeans were his privates are. I'm nervous bestiality is taking place and tried to get rid of the dog but he won't part with it. I feel sick even thinking about it and threw up last night 10 minutes after I witnessed another jean-licking event. My husband is a computer nerd that hasn't been interested in sex for over a month. What could I do if this is happening? I couldn't call the police because he's the main provider for me and my children. BUt is this good grounds for divorce and is it possible to claim alienation of affection even though it with an animal? I have been contemplating divorce for over a year but my chances are slim it getting much support unless an affair occurred. Thanks.

 

Is this a joke? I mean come on... you've already been thinking about divorcing for a year, this puppy is only there for 6 weeks. The little thing seems to like your husband and you think about bestiality? Get real.

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Dogs bond with certain people. It is also NOT uncommon for them to lick people around the crotch area, just as anywhere else. They are curious and checking things out.

 

I think if you husband was sitting around in his underwear or naked and let the dog lick his crotch area and seemed to enjoy it, then you might have an issue on your hands.

 

Right now I think it might be best to figure out WHY you're jealous over the new dog.

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I don't think there is anything sexual going on despite your best efforts to cook up an excuse to milk your husband for spousal support. After reading your other thread I do think that the reason your husband has bonded so well with the puppy is because he senses your hate and disgust with him. He is probably grateful for the affection. I hope a divorce happens soon, and I hope your husband comes out the better for it. No one deserves to be treated the way you treat your husband.

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I think some of you are being a little harsh.

The husband seems to be a little odd in his propensity to let the dog continue stimulating him.

 

Regrettably, I have encountered this behaviour before..... :confused::sick::(

 

 

As a Dog Behaviourist, I can categorically state that the puppy is asserting its authority over the person they lick.

Only Pack elders groom those 'under' them. It is already manifesting supremacy behaviour, and this is because, not withstanding the circumstances, it is being allowed to.

 

I suggest when the dog begins to lick inappropriately - and that could be anyone, anywhere - you merely take it by its collar and remove it.

If your husband protests, explain that this behaviour can lead to aggression in the long run.

You've consulted a dog behaviourist, and she told you.

As to your husband's behaviour, I scarcely think it is sufficient to warrant a divorce, but I wouldn't cite it as a mittigating factor.

If his behaviour escalates and he begins to behave inappropriately with the dog (as the case I encountered eventually did) Then maybe you might have to approach things in a new light.

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Ha, this is an almost funny post...hell at least you haven't caught your husband in bed with the dog, crying as I have...

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Ha, this is an almost funny post...hell at least you haven't caught your husband in bed with the dog, crying as I have...

um, by "in bed with the dog" do you mean, dog as in Female Dog?! Is that what you are calling the OW these days? :lmao:

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dog. Sorry that may be a little offensive for some, but my husband has grown a strong bond with our new puppy that we adopted 6 weeks ago. This pup has an odd propensity to lick my husband's jeans were his privates are. I'm nervous bestiality is taking place and tried to get rid of the dog but he won't part with it. I feel sick even thinking about it and threw up last night 10 minutes after I witnessed another jean-licking event. My husband is a computer nerd that hasn't been interested in sex for over a month. What could I do if this is happening? I couldn't call the police because he's the main provider for me and my children. BUt is this good grounds for divorce and is it possible to claim alienation of affection even though it with an animal? I have been contemplating divorce for over a year but my chances are slim it getting much support unless an affair occurred. Thanks.

I love my puppy too. He is sweet, he licks me and everyone who lets him, he humps on his teddy and also on my legs. I know it is grossed but that's what puppies do. Please don't scream at your husband as long as he does not have *** with the puppy.

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This is a joke, right?

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It must be, because LoriDori never came back after post #1.....

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No communication in this relationship unfortunately. All couples come across situations that push the boundary's of a relationship.

 

Solution....

 

*Dog go's missing for some reason* :confused:

 

Buy a cat.

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Ok kind fellow listeners, it is no longer an accusation, but a fact! I usually go to bed around 11 and last week I decided to of course spy on hubby instead in the middle of the night and I caught him touching the dog inappropriately! I'm not about to go into detail about that, but I have decided starting next week I will be bugging the house with covert spy cams and unfortunately my only avenue left is to blackmail him with it. It should go smoothly as he won't want his family or the courts getting a hold of the video surveillance I'm about to have done! I should get what I NEED out of the upcoming divorce. Thanks for listening and I will be back if there are any new developments.

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Why do you need any further "proof"?

 

Just file for divorce and be done with it!!!

 

What's the point of ANY further interaction with him?

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Judging from your other thread, I'd say you are in the process of setting him up so that you can get a free ride. What you are apparently trying to do I'm sure seems easy in your mind, but understand - threatening blackmail so that you can get "what you need" won't help you much should that information fall into the wrong, or should I say right hands.

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Man alive! I have to read this with a real grain of salt. Man buys new puppy (immature dog!) as a love interest and sex partner! Previously disgruntled wife catched perverted husband diddling dog, and is now going to set up video cams to document aforesaid "diddling", in the hopes of creating an instrument of blackmail.

 

Gives a whole new meaning to BS and WS... it can't be true.

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A puppy? Are you sure he is not just playing with it like normal people do? Like scratching the puppy's stomach, or whatever people do with their pets?

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Ok kind fellow listeners, it is no longer an accusation, but a fact! I usually go to bed around 11 and last week I decided to of course spy on hubby instead in the middle of the night and I caught him touching the dog inappropriately! I'm not about to go into detail about that, but I have decided starting next week I will be bugging the house with covert spy cams and unfortunately my only avenue left is to blackmail him with it. It should go smoothly as he won't want his family or the courts getting a hold of the video surveillance I'm about to have done! I should get what I NEED out of the upcoming divorce. Thanks for listening and I will be back if there are any new developments.

 

 

LMAO @ covert spy cams....Blackmail H with tapes of him fondling the dog? Hummm, I smell Bullsh*t...

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Whilst I have come across cases of this kind in the UK, I agree with you that this is just getting comical.

 

if it's BS, let's keep enjoying the comedy.

If it isn't, Lori, just leave, ferchrissakes!! Why do something so convoluted and ridiculous when actually, all you have to do is sell the dog and change the locks!?

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Is your husband applying bait to his ball bag? Smearing his nuts with peanut butter to get the dog to lick him. LOL This is hillarious. All yall need special help.

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Are you for real with this question?

 

It's a puppy, it's going to lick and bite and do all kinds of crazy things.

 

I think you have a problem not your husband.

I agree with this statement.

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I have been contemplating divorce for over a year but my chances are slim it getting much support unless an affair occurred.
So in lack of a real affair, you decided that the puppy could serve its purpose. :rolleyes:

 

A puppy licking your husband's crotch through his jeans is far from beatiality. He is not having an erection or ejaculating while this licking is taking place. If you're sick of your husband and looking for a reason to divorce him, keep looking.

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