OCCDAVE Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 My ex called my phone and left a voicemail asking when i was gonna pick up my stuff and call back asap.I should have know better but i said what the heck i called and she proceded to excuse me i was camped out on her stairs and tried to run her friend over lmao.I said get a life i am over u i have moved on (lying but she doesnt know)she then cracked a joke saying oh you found some freak who wants to be with you cause your a freak.I am beyond mad now why did she have to do that i feel like i took a huge step back now cause she hung up so she got the last say once again sigh.
BikerBeagle Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 Wow, that's sad and pathetic for her on so many levels ...to call you up about something 'innocent' and proceed to attack you when you called back? On the bright side, I guess you won't be doing that anymore. =)
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 Well to be honest, you asked for it. You didn't have to say it like you said it. You were cruel and so she was cruel back. That's how anger works. Anger begets more anger. You could have nicely said you had moved on and cannot talk to her anymore unfortunately. Not "get a life". You asked for it here. Learn from that mistake in the future.
Author OCCDAVE Posted December 13, 2008 Author Posted December 13, 2008 Well now that leads me to do i go get my stuff first thing monday or what.I know for a fact i wasnt at her house yesterday shes lost her marbles so i'm not sure.
EmperorR Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 ah you should have got a mutual friend or something to get the stuff for you, sorry you had to go through that.
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 Oh rest assured I think your ex is absolutely nuts (or at least while drunk. She was drunk, ya?) but you cannot fight anger with anger. In order to truly end things you must be the bigger person and ignore the anger.
Author OCCDAVE Posted December 13, 2008 Author Posted December 13, 2008 Well i defended myself but unlike her didnt need to curse or anything i just said i found someone better then her and her reply was better then me ? lol she was insluted i felt like saying get off that high horse you are on ur not that good looking even.She said i found someone else who has shown me not all guys are jerks and he is what i needed lmao all the garbage she ranted to me the night before we broke up.
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