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Feeling tempted to break NC...


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I've been NC with my ex for a few days short of a month...not sure the exact number, and it really doesn't matter. We've been broken up for a little over 2 months, and the NC was at my request. She wanted to be friends.

 

Anywho, I'm feeling tempted to break NC. I want to send her a text just to wish her good luck on her final exams next week. Just thought I'd post so in case this is a really dumb idea, you guys will stop me.

 

So yeah...GO! Tell me what I need to hear.

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text her, one of these things will happen

 

1) she will say thanks and that's it

 

2) she will thanks and say how are you, then you will reply and etc., and at the end be in the same position as before, her not wanting you and only thinking of you as a friend

 

3) she goes oh I Missed you so much, thanks for contacting me let's give it another shot

 

 

number 3 never happens, breaking NC will only make you feel good a little bit, then in the end your right back at the beginning. I know the feeling, i broke NC so much in the earlier days, hell even now sometimes I still struggle but I won't get that little hit to feel better for a short time.

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