melissa123 Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 Anyone else have this problem? Its been about a month and two weeks yet I am missing him more and thinking about him more each day ;( It seems the pain gets worse not less! Im am starting to get so frustrated with myself! I cant seem to shake the emotions! It has become worse since I found out the real reason he dumped me! I lie awake at night and hes all I think about! I try so hard to get him off my mind that I end up crying my eyes out every night as im so frustrated with myself for not moving on! I know he will be moving on soon and it will destroy me I want to get over him and I want to move on but it seems I cant. I thought I was doing ok but now all I do is miss him and wish he will come back an everything will be ok again
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 It's okay melissa. I am here for you. You can think about me at night and I'll think about you too. I'll toss you a prayer too. You know I have your back melissa, you are never alone.
Author melissa123 Posted December 13, 2008 Author Posted December 13, 2008 Thanks Tom Im so happy for you that you got your ex back!!! Thats amazing!! Im truly happy for you! Your an awesome person and you deserve it! I hope things work out better this time! Dont worry about that other girl btw You did absolutly nothing wrong at all! Dont even tell your ex (or should I say gf!), you were broken up at the time and she was mucking you round so its not her business! Anyway thanks for the reply and im so excited for you!!
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 Haha I hate to be the bearer of bad news but I am not back with her lol she said she wants to get back together in February :/ We'll see if that ever happens. I know I'm not holding my breath. But forget all that. Tell me how you're doing today? Any plans? Whats new? Do you feel any better? Things better at all?
californiadreaming Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 All I can say is pray, pray, pray, and want him because you know he is right for you.
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 Melissa you're an awesome person though. Anyone would be lucky to have someone so caring.
Author melissa123 Posted December 14, 2008 Author Posted December 14, 2008 Thanks Seems im not a good person at all. He has a new gf. Found out last night, I felt like someone had stabbed me. I have never been so dam hurt in my life. I hate this so much, I dont want to sound crazy but im just ready to end it all. Im am SOOOO easy to get over and SOO easy to replace. There is always someone out there better than me and im starting to wonder why do I even bother trying. My first love of two years left me for someone else and now it has happened again. This girl he is with now, is blonde, blue eyes, perfect figure, studying to be a doctor. You cant fault her Its hurts so bad, I just dont want to be here anymore, my heart aches so bad
californiadreaming Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 Thanks Seems im not a good person at all. He has a new gf. Found out last night, I felt like someone had stabbed me. I have never been so dam hurt in my life. I hate this so much, I dont want to sound crazy but im just ready to end it all. Im am SOOOO easy to get over and SOO easy to replace. There is always someone out there better than me and im starting to wonder why do I even bother trying. My first love of two years left me for someone else and now it has happened again. This girl he is with now, is blonde, blue eyes, perfect figure, studying to be a doctor. You cant fault her Its hurts so bad, I just dont want to be here anymore, my heart aches so bad First of all, Don't beat yourself up over men leaving you for someone else. The best thing to do is root the problem. There is a reason why this has happen to you twice. The first time you didn't learn from it, and that is okay, the second time you now have a chance to fix it by figuring it all out. If you do this I am sure the 3rd time will never occur. If I have learned anything form this site, TIME, YOURSELF, and CHANGE are thee most important part of a relationship break up(I'd ad understanding and learning from aswell) so take those things into consideration, trace back the problems, learn about why/how, understand them, change them, and work on yourself, But know that all of this is going to take time.
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 Melissa please IM me on AIM. My AIM name is Shelty de Fluff. If you don't have AIM please go download it. I will help you a lot. Please do it for yourself. I will be here for you all night. IM me. I'll be waiting. You know we go way back, ya? I care.
openbook08 Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 aww melissa im so sorry to hear that sweetheart same happened to me a few weeks ago too you always have that bit of hope that theyll realise how great you were & things will be ok again (no matter how hard you convince yourself you dont care) but now it just feels like theres no hope ... anywhere.... so i know exactly how youre feeling. please dont feel like this is it though, i know youve had enough i know it well but please post again & we'll help each other through it. X
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