Confused5433 Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 I just recently went on my first date. I meet an incredible guy, tall, intelligent, respectful, humble and beautiful. We had a great time together, and I felt a very strong attraction for him and I think he did too. It's been so long since I dated that I don't know how to even begin. I want to get to know him better and spend more time with him, but I don't want to take the first step. Our date was Sat and Wed I send him a very casual, nice date email. He replied very politely, and that's that. I can't stop thinking about this guy but I don't want to seem desperate. I guess my question is what should I do next and what do guy find irresistable when they first meet a girl.
Zagggon Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 he will like it if you make the contact, cuzz he is prolly unsure, DO IT DO IT CMON
LovieDove24 Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 Zagggon...she already made the first contact. Unfortunately, the only thing you can do now is wait. I know it sucks but if you call him again its going to push him away. That is simply part of the game when you first start dating. Take comfort in the fact that I, and many others have had amazing dates, amazing conversations, amazing chemistry only for some odd reason never to hear from the other person again. It just happens and its just life.
gd26 Posted December 14, 2008 Posted December 14, 2008 Zagggon...she already made the first contact. Unfortunately, the only thing you can do now is wait. I know it sucks but if you call him again its going to push him away. That is simply part of the game when you first start dating. Take comfort in the fact that I, and many others have had amazing dates, amazing conversations, amazing chemistry only for some odd reason never to hear from the other person again. It just happens and its just life. I totally agree with this. Just wait. If he likes you too, he WILL ask you out on another date. You already initiated contact with him, so now it is his turn. If you keep pursuing him, it will push him away and he'll be less interested. If he doesn't contact you again regarding another date... I know it will be sad and hard on you, but it means he just isn't as interested as you are. In that case, you will just have to move on. Please just wait... I promise you that you won't regret waiting for him to contact you. I am 27 years old, I have met many men... I know from my personal experiences about these things. When guys were interested in me, they definitely showed me how excited they were by calling often and wanting to spend time with me. Guys tend to be much simpler than girls. Girls sometime pretend to not be into a guy. But guys don't do this as much... if they like you, they WILL show you that, they won't pretend they don't care. That's why I say that if he is romantically interested, he will get back in touch with you to schedule another date. If he didn't mention anything in his last email to you about going out again, you should probably assume he isn't interested... and move on to dating other guys.
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