warmsmile Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Question for Men?? Scenario: 44 year old Guy makes a lot of effort to fly out of town. Make plans including a work related blacktie dinner. Wines and dines at expensive restaurants. An evening at sports game. Sex several times in the weekend. Woman is 41. Former girlfriend from college who he has an extramarital affair with. Now, he's getting a divorce. Has been with her for 2 years. Is this love for him? Is he trying to impress her? He says he is broke?!! He emails me first thing when he gets back in town. He also came over to see me. I gave him a back massage. Tells me he is going out of town with the son on work. Did not mention her, but said how much fun he and his son had. Then he accidentally slipped up on a detail which is what got me curious. I was already having a gut feeling. What does he want from me? Is he missing me? Does he want a comparison of what he feels like when he's around me and what he feels like when he's around her? Is he just lonely? Does he want sex with me to give himself distance from her? Does have intimacy issues so he wants "distance" from both of us? We have fooled around a couple of times. I didn't know he was seeing anyone. What does this guy want from me? Thanks!
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