Bells Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 Okay, I have a question. Have you ever had friends, family members and other loved ones tell you that you're overly picky. And...after SO many times of them telling you this, have you gave it thought to what they said, and considered bending on your silly long laundry list of unrealistic expectations? Time and time again, your friends and everyone YOU know, will finally make you reconsider and be flexible in your dating (esp. physical) criteria?
D-Jam Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 I've had the opposite. I get them telling me never to date or marry for the sake of "having someone", and I shouldn't settle in life for less, and I should stay alone until the girl I find is 100% right for me. I've seen it go the other way. I imagine women get it worse when the mothers, aunts, etc are all nagging on them to settle down and have kids, etc.
RecordProducer Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Have you ever had friends, family members and other loved ones tell you that you're overly picky. (esp. physical) criteria?When people tell you that you're too picky, it usually means "you're not in a position to be that picky."
Meaplus3 Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Yeah..I've heard that I'm picky from family and friends many times. but that's because they are right I am picky. Thought about what they have said but I know what I like.. and I'm not backing down just to please them. AP:)
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Why wouldn't I be picky? We're talking about choosing a mate for a LTR or potentially marriage. Of course I will be picky about choosing the person I'm going to be with for the rest of my G-D life!
berrieh Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Okay, I have a question. Have you ever had friends, family members and other loved ones tell you that you're overly picky. And...after SO many times of them telling you this, have you gave it thought to what they said, and considered bending on your silly long laundry list of unrealistic expectations? Time and time again, your friends and everyone YOU know, will finally make you reconsider and be flexible in your dating (esp. physical) criteria? Mine don't tell me I'm too picky. They ruin my relationships by nitpicking them to death. Some of my friends basically think no man is good enough for me unless he's already kissing the ground I walk on from Day 1! It's flattering they think I'm that much of a catch , but the things they find fault with are frustrating at times. So, I have the opposite problem.
carhill Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Pretty much no one can effectively tell me anything. It's called only child disease
berrieh Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Pretty much no one can effectively tell me anything. It's called only child disease I'm an only child. How come I can't get struck with that one?
carhill Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Blame your parents. It's all their fault. Not enough over-indulgence
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