gummybear Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 Meet guy online for first time. Had dinner. Guy walks girl to car out of courtesy but no hug or even handshake at end. Guy says 'It was nice meeting you. So I'll give you a call...or something". Girl thinks this is last time she will hear from him. LOL
aamber Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 I like to look on positive side, but maybe he didn't know what else to say?? Or since he was a online hook up, maybe he does not get with many girls so he wasn't sure how to make a next step. My boyfriend said the exact same thing after our first date - He did not date much before me, He was apparently really nervous and I said we should do this again his response was "I'll call you sometime" I was pretty confused, so I gave him a couple days and I spoke to him myself and came up with something to do, Girls gotta take the lead sometime. My guy was just shy..
Author gummybear Posted December 11, 2008 Author Posted December 11, 2008 Basically, I left my perfume at home so I did not wear any perfume for the first time on a first date!! :0 lol Honestly, the date was bland. I think it had something to do with the fact that he's 37 and I'm 25. I've never gone out with someone so much older...most guys I went out with were still in their 20s. That being said, I've never had a first date where the guy did not call back to ask for a second one...so maybe this is just a bruise to my ego lol. Even if I dont like a guy, I still want them to want me .
Author gummybear Posted December 11, 2008 Author Posted December 11, 2008 Ok, so he did not call...he emailed me. He would like to meet up again soon. So basically, this will be the 4th guy I'm rejecting after a first date since I moved here to this new city. LA sucks. We met for the first time last night. This guy was not bad at all, he was nice, but there were zero sparks. I'm surprised he even emailed me. I actually felt SUPER bad the first few times I had to reject a guy...but I think now I'm just numb to it all.... It's probably not helpful that I started IMing with my ex every day since last Monday...
IrishCarBomb Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 I think now I'm just numb to it all... LA will do that... in one way or another.
tincanman99 Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 Why are you surprised? You said the date was bland. There was no spark, he realized that too. It has nothing to do with age and the fact there was no connection. Just how it is sometimes. BTW, if you think LA is bad try NYC sometime. It may be worse.
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