pniggy12 Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 I'm attracted to a girl at my work and we've been out twice email and text alot but very little actual talking .. On the first date we where very close had a very good kiss goodnight , our second outing ( company x-mas party ) but not classed as a date ... she was with me all night but not close at all ..it been 5 days since the party and the emails have pretty much stopped and i have not even tried to text her .. I think she just wants me as a friend but not sure how to to find out i know i should just throw it out there and say whats up ?? but i'm not sure how to put it into words
prettybaby Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 Plain and simple: ask her out on a date. Something that clearly is a date. And see how she reacts. You shouldn't approach this in a way that you're insecure and need validation. Simply assume the best, make moves, and test her feedback.
Author pniggy12 Posted December 11, 2008 Author Posted December 11, 2008 Well there it is no date ... she siad no once again i'm just a friend
Enema Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 Nothing ventured - nothing gained. Good on you for at least diving in!
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