Saesan Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 In an earlier thread I posted that my ex had left me for someone else a bit over 2 months ago, and that we had a dog together that I had kept. Last night my dog went missing - I called in sick, spent all day driving around looking for him, put posters up - and then I got a txt message from the ex tonight saying he had come and got his dog last night. I sent one back saying thanks for letting me know as I was worried about him, and at least I know he's safe. So I broke 3 weeks NC. And now I'm feeling really down because my dog is gone for good and there's nothing I can do about it. I'm not really sure how to cope with this additional grief - having the dog around helped because I was taking him for really long walks most days and generally just hanging out with him when I was down. But now he's gone and I didn't even get a chance to say goodbye to him...
SierraRose Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 You and do one of 2 things: call the cops and get your dog back, or get another dog.
Posco_Proudfoot Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 Sort of a jerk for not telling you ahead of time. I'm not sure I'd want a guy like that who is so inconsiderate.
Author Saesan Posted December 11, 2008 Author Posted December 11, 2008 I tried calling the cops but they said it was a civil matter and they couldn't do anything about it, even though he had to come onto the property to get him. I'm not really into replacing my pets either, as I love them like they're my children. I just feel like now I have to start the whole grieving process all over again - but this time for my dog.
fabulousgal Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 holy crap. he leaves you for someone else, and then kidnaps the dog. i understand its hard to leave a pet behind, but he went about this in an atrocious way. i wish he had not been a douche and let you keep the dog. what goes around comes right back around, so stay strong. you deserve much much much better.
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