Author Isolde Posted December 12, 2008 Author Posted December 12, 2008 He will if he has personal problems. It's not psycho if the feelings are mutual. I doubt TBF was advocating getting with a creepy, clingy type. She just meant one should be with someone who is hot for them, not lukewarm.
S.T.C Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 WTF are you on about? I am attracted to a woman I know, but I am unsure of whether or not to pursue her, I'll see how things pan out, because the women I attract tend to try and destroy me sooner or later and the one that inflicted most of the venom has left me living life with enough cynicism to sink Poland. As much as I like this woman, I'm not going to act like a trained seal pup around her to show her I am HOT for HER. That's just another example of a woman's sheer arrogance.
Author Isolde Posted December 12, 2008 Author Posted December 12, 2008 WTF are you on about? I am attracted to a woman I know, but I am unsure of whether or not to pursue her, I'll see how things pan out, because the women I attract tend to try and destroy me sooner or later and the one that inflicted most of the venom has left me living life with enough cynicism to sink Poland. As much as I like this woman, I'm not going to act like a trained seal pup around her to show her I am HOT for HER. That's just another example of a woman's sheer arrogance. Well, it's interesting to see your perspective... btw seal pups are cute ^^
S.T.C Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 btw seal pups are cute ^^ Is that before or after the disgusting race known as Canadian's smash their skulls?
D-Lish Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Is that before or after the disgusting race known as Canadian's smash their skulls? Canadians aren't actually a "race"....
Trialbyfire Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 I think what TBF meant was that the right guy will make it very clear that he really wants to be with you. He won't be lukewarm or make up excuses not to date you. Guys don't understand girl-speak!
carhill Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Yeah, well, a girl asks for a guy's opinion (see thread title) and what ensues? Females projecting for males My contribution, from many years of marriage, is a woman who doesn't suck my lips like a Hoover gets a pass
Trialbyfire Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Hey, just telling it like it is! :laugh: No one is the perfect mate. So, if he's into you, he's going to be seeing the positives, hormones and testosterone a-raging. If he's uncertain, it's when the list comes out...
T-town Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 I'm not making gender-valued statements here, but am simply asking this from a girl's perspective. Why circumstances make guys feel lukewarm towards a girl as opposed to wanting to pursue a relationship with her? Assume attraction is there and she's not crazy. What would make you hesitate versus pursuing her enthusiastically? I know this is a very broad question but I'm intrigued to hear some thoughts. A lot of times it's chemistry. There have been a couple girls I have dated who were pretty, good jobs, seemed to be the kind of girl I would want to date...however for whatever reason there wasn't any chemistry. Hard to put my finger on why...but that is about the most important thing to me.
carhill Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 So, if he's into you, he's going to be seeing the positives, hormones and testosterone a-raging. If he's uncertain, it's when the list comes out...I've never had a list........ "Houston, we have a problem" IOW, can you imagine a more frustrating situation (for the woman) than a man who goes completely on emotion and instinct?? Well, there ya go...
Trialbyfire Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 I've never had a list........ "Houston, we have a problem" IOW, can you imagine a more frustrating situation (for the woman) than a man who goes completely on emotion and instinct?? Well, there ya go... Somehow you always manage to crack me up!
Charles1978 Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 I'm a girl, so I can't really answer for sure lol but I do know that girls who play too hard to get, or just don't ever initiate anything at all, or show little to no interest (either consciously or due to shyness) will eventually tire guys or confuse them so much that they'll move on. Sometimes before anything even gets started. Absolutely. Hit the nail on the head for me.
fishtaco Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Guys don't understand girl-speak! LOL, that's true. But girls also don't understand guy-speak. From my perspective, girls should learn guy-speak. But I'm sure girls have the perspective that guys should learn girl-speak. Hence the eternal struggle continues. My contribution, from many years of marriage, is a woman who doesn't suck my lips like a Hoover gets a pass Be careful what you wish for: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/magazine/7777191.stm
shadowplay Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 This is the same advice my mom gives me I can't imagine a guy ever pursuing me like that... Don't think I've ever had a guy pursue me like that. Maybe that's a good thng...
carhill Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Personally, I prefer the "halfway" approach, both in the "speak" and kissing departments. The ability to bend can be very sexy
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