sweetappl2 Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 Long story short, my ex broke up with me cause he needed to figure some things out in his life. It's been almost 3 months... we've kept in contact, he tells me that he cares, misses me, etc over the course of those months. Well things just keep getting more and more difficult. He's NEVER been distant until now, and I don't know why. He has been really stressed out (me too) because we recently trained people who basically took over our jobs at work. And now that we've done that, plus because of the economy, we don't get scheduled much anymore. I have no hours, and he has at least one day... ugh. So I know he's furious about it... he kept talking the other day how he felt 'betrayed' and I asked him by who or whom? Cause a few days prior he had mentioned people "badmouthing" him. I really think he's just imagining it. If they are badmouthing him, its because he's been in such a bad mood lately.... because of what I described above and with the job thing. I know he's been taking it so personally, he doesn't like to be walked all over. I told him that, because i felt like he was blaming me for the badmouthing. He asked me if I was talking about what goes on between us, and that it was being used to badmouth him. I tell people nothing! So that kinda upset me! He's been REALLY distant for him. I asked him what's going on, why are you so distant? and he said he's been distant from everyone. I asked why and he brought up the betrayl thing and that he didn't want to talk about it. I asked if i was the one who betrayed him and he said no, don't pry into stuff. I have a feeling its about work, because people have told me he's been in a strange mood, won't say much, won't smile, etc.... I haven't seen him in almost 2 weeks. I talked to him on the phone a few days ago, and asked him why he's not talking. Said he's upset with a lot of people. Am I just crazy, but WHY would a guy not be able to talk to anyone because he's upset and stressed out? I mean he won't even talk to me as a friend. So what should i do, just let him be? Its been so out of character for him just to not talk to me completely. I let him know I was there for him when he needed and still haven't heard from him. Is it typical of guys to do this? I know it doesn't have to do with me, because he's told me that. But I know he's been stressed out for a long time and all the sudden he's doing this. I don't suspect its someone else, because he is not that type... and trust me I would know. We have all of the same friends.
Author sweetappl2 Posted December 11, 2008 Author Posted December 11, 2008 Also, do you think I should text him at all? I gave in a few days ago because I couldn't stand it, and thats when we talked on the phone about it. I just don't know what to do.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 He sounds like he's suffering from depression.
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