Author kashmir Posted December 12, 2008 Author Posted December 12, 2008 Phenomonal ballsiness. To continue auctioning off the Senate seat while the FBI and CIA are buzzing around like hornets, proves that he's a man with cajones! Unfortunately, his ballsiness is made null by his stupidity, his arrogance, and his corrupt and immoral nature.
Trialbyfire Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Unfortunately, his ballsiness is made null by his stupidity, his arrogance, and his corrupt and immoral nature. He's a moron...
Author kashmir Posted December 12, 2008 Author Posted December 12, 2008 He's a moron... Cool...I thought you were getting at saying he's attractive because he did what he did. I was thinking WTF?
Artu Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 You meet a girl,she looks at you,saying nothing . You meet a girl,she is talking to you,you cant stop .. You meet a girl,she asks your tel.number, never calling .. You meet a girl,she is telling you:"You`re awesum,man!" You meet a girl,she looks aside not to look at you .. All girls have a crush on you ..But you need to get the signs from each and every . Every girl like any guy has her own ways . And by the way they act different ways with different guys .
canigetanswers Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 kashmir, i think u focus too much on signs....u shld just go out and meet pple. worry abt the signs when they get really obvious to ur subconsciousness. i think girls can feel that u are trying to pick up signs.. i believe im right coz i was like u b4. not that im not now but my situation has improved.
berrieh Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Can't believe Gov. Blago hijacked this thread... I don't think he seems that confident. Arrogant, delusional sociopath? Yup. But I'm betting he has a deep inferiority complex about something. If you want a political example of true, healthy confidence, I'm going to have to go with Barack Obama. And he did pretty well for himself (both with his work and with his wife...she seems like a catch). All girls have a crush on you ..But you need to get the signs from each and every . Every girl like any guy has her own ways . And by the way they act different ways with different guys . The first part is not true (no, all girls do not have a crush on you) at all, but the second part is very true: Girls act differently from each other, and even the same girl acts differently with different men. Go figure.
Author kashmir Posted December 12, 2008 Author Posted December 12, 2008 kashmir, i think u focus too much on signs....u shld just go out and meet pple. worry abt the signs when they get really obvious to ur subconsciousness. i think girls can feel that u are trying to pick up signs.. i believe im right coz i was like u b4. not that im not now but my situation has improved. Yeah, I focus too much on signs afterwards when I'm thinking about an encounter I had with someone. During the encounter, though, I'm totally oblivious. And Artu, I really have no idea what you're saying... And I don't want to turn this into any more of a political discussion, but Obama isn't as confident as he appears to be. I think he has deep-seeded and hidden angers and insecurities about American society. I don't blame him for having them, but don't make him out to be this perfect and invulnerable figure who is completely comfortable with himself and the world, because he's not.
berrieh Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 And I don't want to turn this into any more of a political discussion, but Obama isn't as confident as he appears to be. I think he has deep-seeded and hidden angers and insecurities about American society. I don't blame him for having them, but don't make him out to be this perfect and invulnerable figure who is completely comfortable with himself and the world, because he's not. I don't think Obama is perfect and invulnerable, but I've met and spoken with lots of politicians, including Obama (before he was a rising superstar, so I actually got to talk with him, too), and he's one of the only ones I ever thought, "Wow, he seems comfortable in his own skin." Everyone's welcome to their own opinions. That just happened to be mine. But confident and comfy in one's skin doesn't equal perfect. Politicians usually seem so jumpy in person, like terriers. He didn't, when I met him at least. That said... an interesting point beyond the political Being comfortable with one's self and the world are two very different things. I think an evolved, confident person will learn to be confident with themselves, and that will further their goals in life, dating, work, and otherwise; but I don't think we ever have to become "comfortable" with the world to be confident. We just have to be comfortable with ourselves, and endeavor to change what makes us uncomfortable in the world. That doesn't just apply to politics, but to everything, including dating: If something about dating makes you uncomfortable, but you're comfortable with yourself...you'll find a way to change that thing, at least for yourself, rather than comform to what you find uncomfortable about dating. That's true confidence. Being one's self at all times and still feeling good and strong and present.
Trialbyfire Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Cool...I thought you were getting at saying he's attractive because he did what he did. I was thinking WTF? I was being facetious. Blago is an idiot, to push this. You have to wonder about megalomaniacs. Someone should write a book called: The Rise and Fall of a Megalomaniac with Little to No Gray Matter. or Yes, I'm Too Stupid for Words. Anyways, back on topic. Watch for signs of interest, then go for it. If you get rejected, there's always the next one or the next one. One way of ascertaining what kind of girl she is, is to watch how she acts with guys she ends up dating and guys she doesn't. There are all kinds of girls out there, who react different to the opposite gender. One thing's for certain. If you give mixed signals or are tentative, you're less likely to get someone to date you. Sure, there are girls who prefer shy guys. You'll find some that even enjoy being the one in charge of the pursuit. But there are less of these girls, than the other type, who prefer the guy who's assertive.
carhill Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 Well if you of all people believe him, then I'm going to start telling girls that I've never been rejected. I'm sure they would be shocked too if they found out I was lying. The key is feeling it (that you haven't been and are not going to be rejected). This positive psychology does two things. One is that it sends out positive signals through your voice, eye contact and body language to the woman, showing confidence. Two is that, regardless of her response, you continue to hold your head high, smile and convey that same positive message. This is especially important if she initially rejects you. How you respond to that says a lot about what might happen next. With women, nothing is at is seems
canigetanswers Posted December 13, 2008 Posted December 13, 2008 I was being facetious. Blago is an idiot, to push this. You have to wonder about megalomaniacs. Someone should write a book called: The Rise and Fall of a Megalomaniac with Little to No Gray Matter. or Yes, I'm Too Stupid for Words. Anyways, back on topic. Watch for signs of interest, then go for it. If you get rejected, there's always the next one or the next one. One way of ascertaining what kind of girl she is, is to watch how she acts with guys she ends up dating and guys she doesn't. There are all kinds of girls out there, who react different to the opposite gender. One thing's for certain. If you give mixed signals or are tentative, you're less likely to get someone to date you. Sure, there are girls who prefer shy guys. You'll find some that even enjoy being the one in charge of the pursuit. But there are less of these girls, than the other type, who prefer the guy who's assertive. he has been watching for signs and that is his problem...coz he dwells too much on it. i'd say...assume they are attracted to u....and just go and meet people...eventually u will know if they like u. it will so obvious. stop reading ever move...lotsa girls these day give out 'signs' they arent aware of. they dun mean it most of the time.
Author kashmir Posted December 13, 2008 Author Posted December 13, 2008 Tomorrow some of my teammates are having a party at their house. Before they were talking about doing something more creative with music instead of having this one guy's lame 80's playlist going, so I think I'm going to ask if I could bring my guitar and play for a little while. That would be awesome, because I haven't played at a party in a long time. Assuming I get to do that, it'll be a lot of fun, and I'll finally get to play again. I'm also sure that'll get me some positive exposure to people there.
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