shadyp Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 hello all, I had a argument with my guy WHY? i dont feel he pays me attention at times. i wanted 2 know where we are going-been together for 2half years. We did not talk the day after. After that i contacted him-2 texts/4 calls-nothing. Now i am most upset. i have a feeling ths could be it between me and BF. i really dont want to end up having played him. me n bf work togther once a week. he also maybe out on fri night-work do-dont want 2 b causing scenes there. why is he ignoring me-i feel like shouting at him but i take my revenge out by being unfaithful. it hurts he is not calling, been four days now.i have not tried to contact him-give himspace. what do i do now! thnks
justaman99 Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 "i feel like shouting at him but i take my revenge out by being unfaithful." What the hell does that mean?
Author shadyp Posted December 12, 2008 Author Posted December 12, 2008 it means i have waited 5 days for him to call-nothing when i did try i got no response(2nd day). now i feel like going off with some 1 else (there is a potential) but i feel guilty. i do lve my bf but when i think of how he is ignoring me i want to hurt him like he hurt me. what makes him think he can throw me away, ignore me and expect me to be there when he wants me...
boourget Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 He's taking advantage of you. He knows you will always be there...no need for him to panic. If he finds out or suspects (don't tell him outright yourself, let him discover) that you are possibly interested in someone else, for real, you will soon find out his true feelings towards you.
justaman99 Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 He's taking advantage of you. He knows you will always be there...no need for him to panic. If he finds out or suspects (don't tell him outright yourself, let him discover) that you are possibly interested in someone else, for real, you will soon find out his true feelings towards you. No you won't. I am sorry but totally disagree. If he finds out she's seeing some other guy the most likely reason that he will come back be is because his ego has taken a hit. Not because he loves her or cares for her. If she doesn't f around with some guy and he comes back around then it's something a little more meaningful, hopefully just because he isn't lonely or needs an easy ****. My advice here is get your head in check. Are you really the kind of person to go out and **** some guy for revenge? What does that say about you really? Just take some time out, get your emotions together, yeah it hurts, yeah you hate him right now, but you may be making a big mistake. Don't be a vengeful person. It isn't good for your health.
Davey McG Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 If he finds out or suspects (don't tell him outright yourself, let him discover) that you are possibly interested in someone else, for real, you will soon find out his true feelings towards you. Worst. Advice. Ever (apart from when a passer-by told Danilo Ilić that no harm could come out of harming Archduke Ferdinand)
Geishawhelk Posted December 12, 2008 Posted December 12, 2008 I'll steal that line! If you're tempted to be unfaithful, break up. If this is your feeling, I doubt you're that much into him anyway. Don't do the wrong thing, do the right thing.
Author shadyp Posted December 12, 2008 Author Posted December 12, 2008 i dont want break up with him. so i chat to this other guy-he knows the score. i would hate myself IF i ended up doing something with this guy BUT it hurts when i try talking to BF and he backs away. i'm left miserable and vengeful. i aint done nothing yet so far so good but when i'm intoxicated and missing the love of my life and he shuns it all=disaster ahead. we spoke-i text him AHHHHH! i just couldnt hold out. its PMS time too which throws my emotions off the reichter scale. so we talked a bit, me and BF-he is immature about it,being childish over phone then says he has a lot on at home that i dont know about. makes me think hmmmm ok, least we talking. he rang few times and we in contact now. i could jump right in there, give him the eye and capture him again but i dont want too-i want to sort our problems out. i know i cant jump in the deep end and fire away-he switches off so i gotta bide my time. its the waiting game4 me. the way i see it is 'if u really wanna be with me u will want to talk it out and fix it' but i guess he doesnt work that way. he wud rather push it under the carpet and carry on with holes in the bucket. end line: he says he missed me but doesnt want to talk about it. now what does muggins me do.
Author shadyp Posted December 12, 2008 Author Posted December 12, 2008 If she doesn't f around with some guy and he comes back around then it's something a little more meaningful, hopefully just because he isn't lonely or needs an easy ****. whats the difference between missing ur other half and being lonely? as in i care a lot for my BF. when he is not with me i do feel lonely. so is it not more or less the same thing? very thin line between the 2? no i am not about to go sleeping behind his back but even 'hanging' around with another guy is kinda unfaithful. still i hear what ur saying in your response-thanks.
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