muse08 Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 ok... been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. cool guy. lives in my neighborhood. we would speak in passing, while we were on our ways to work, or while he'd be walking his dogs b4 work, etc. but he would try to carry on longer conversations.back then i was seeing someone else and wasn't really accepting of his advances, but i was always cordial. he had suggested dinner once before, but i was involved and told him that. however, since my last relationship failed, i was trying to get over it and just be "single" for a while until here he comes one evening in our condo development parking lot and carries on a conversation with me. i never knew he had such a dry, yet funny sense of humor. so i finally agree to go out with him. we did dinner and a movie. we enjoyed each other's company. i felt comfortable in his presence, yet had to slow him down sometime from being too affectionate, i.e. holding hands, hugging too long. ever since, we have been seeing each other very regularly. he wants to see me every day. he has stayed at my place and i've stayed at his. so far we stayed together almost every single night for the last month!...and he still /WE still seem to be happy to see each other. is it abnormal for a guy to want to spend every night with a female he's been seeing for about 2 months? is there a number to judge by? the only thing i can think of is that when we first went out i told him that i wasn't ready to move too fast and get too serious because i had just ended a relationship and what if either of us has a guest come over...i didn't want it to be awkward. thus far, we have been each others' guest for the last month str8. so could that possibly be why he's trying to see me every day and wants us to stay together every night? are we moving too fast? he said he loved me a few weeks ago. i said it back shortly after, but almost retracted it in a subtle way, but not completely. i've seen qualities in him that i truly respect and love. could this be a natural flow of a new love relationship or what?
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