Heartsburstintofire Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I recently put a post on here asking for help with regards to coping with the end of a six year relationship....thanks to all who replied..well im now moving on and taking each day as it comes, some im good some im not. My now ex has been chatting to a bloke online and he asked her out the other day, me trying to cope said you should do what makes you happy to her....now she says that she doesnt want to say yes to him cos of me! i just want to move on and i said to her that even though some jealousy will be a part of it, she should as well (after all she ended it)...yet she still talks about us being intimate and when or if we ever visit, being intimate again! its the last thing i need, but i want her to move on as although it will hurt seeing her with a douchebag it will help me see that there are (hopefully) other people who will b the one.. Link to post Share on other sites
EmperorR Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Ah you should have went NC, so you would not be put in situations like this. I would go Cold No contact right now, it seems she's just stringing you along, giving you bread crumbs. Already talking to a new guy so fast after a 6 year relationship, i'm sorry whether you said yes or no she is going to give this guy or another guy a cdhance, it's just a matter of time. Go NC, and move on it's the only way. Link to post Share on other sites
Geishawhelk Posted December 11, 2008 Share Posted December 11, 2008 Look at the dust-trail she's left behind her. He's not a possibility. You're history. You and she are over. Finished. Delete her from every single available place, and go no contact. This is a non-runner, from right here, right now. Sorry, man. This was the first reply you received in your other thread. From me. Which bit of it did you not understand..... Link to post Share on other sites
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