Becca1979 Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 I called him again I can't just cut off all contact because we have a son but I keep calling him with these lame excuses and he always sounds so annoyed it makes me crazy we used to be such good friends he was my best friend no replies needed just need to put the stuff in my head down somewhere
DSM-IV Tom Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 You should try making a blog. It can be very helpful and you can vent and people can read it. If there is a son involved then NC is not possible. NC is not intended to be used by people in your situation. You should be using LC (Limited Contact). You must keep in somewhat contact, in order for the child to benefit. Unless you have sole custody. Then go ahead and enforce NC.
Geishawhelk Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 Becca - Think Dignity. Think Self-respect. Think - Every time I contact him, I kill a piece of me. Stop being a dumbass..... Cut it out and show some self-control, woman!!
Anastasia0309 Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 Yes! Self control! It's something I could never get down and it has made my situation way harder. And yes the best reason to do NC or LC is self respect! Be strong!
IcemanJB Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 Yes! Self control! It's something I could never get down and it has made my situation way harder. And yes the best reason to do NC or LC is self respect! Be strong! I will 2nd this notion. And if you explain this to your S.O., they will probably understand. At least mine did...maybe I was lucky.
Author Becca1979 Posted December 10, 2008 Author Posted December 10, 2008 Thanks for the support usually I keep myself busy enough not to have the urge to call him today's just been a bad day
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