cujames87 Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 Hey, Today I was finding out the results of a breast cancer biopsy for my dad. My boyfriend knew it and this morning sends me a txt saying slept well, have a great wednsday! He knew I would be done at the doc at 3. He is on his break and just sends me a text message saying " any news?" and doesnt even call me. Am I being irrational for feeling so hurt and burned. Or should I move on. It really is as if he could be bothered?
Zagggon Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 my god no dont get all emo over something like that. Look the guy showed he cared at least to call about it. Let me tell you this much, if thats enough to get you upset then your relationship with this guy is gonna go to hell in a hand basket because what you just described is nothing...literally
Dexter Morgan Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 Hey, Today I was finding out the results of a breast cancer biopsy for my dad. My boyfriend knew it and this morning sends me a txt saying slept well, have a great wednsday! He knew I would be done at the doc at 3. He is on his break and just sends me a text message saying " any news?" and doesnt even call me. Am I being irrational for feeling so hurt and burned. Or should I move on. It really is as if he could be bothered? There are some guys out there that wouldn't even think to contact you at all about the "news" and would wait til they saw you. If he didn't want to be bothered with it, he wouldn't have texted you asking at all. By the way, everything ok with your dad?
Author cujames87 Posted December 10, 2008 Author Posted December 10, 2008 No, a very bad prognosis was given today which is why I am probably more emotional then I should be.
jason83 Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 I would agree that maybe it wasn't as sensitive as a comment that you were looking for but the fact that he made an attempt should show that he cares. I can somewhat understand how you might feel. My mother is going through the final stages of radiation treatments for breast cancer. It can be a very difficult thing and I wish your father and your family all the best! You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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