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Should I flat out ask him if he's not interested?


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Great dates. Great phone conversations. Has driven me around town showing me where he works, where his friends live, where his grandfather is buried, and took me to the bar he frequents the most.

 

Takes longer than a week to communicate with me after dates, and I am starting to feel like either he:

 

isn't interested

 

or

 

wants me to chase him.

 

 

We're both experienced, we've both had long term relationships. I don't get it.

 

I can't jump to conclusions because we've only known eachother for a month, I'm not his girlfriend, and I feel it's not my place to tell him I need more attention when we don't have anything "real" established. I'm not gonna be a psycho and ask him why he's not pledging his allegience to me.

 

But come on now...are there any dead give aways that it's either playing hard to get/control or pure disinterest?

 

PS--our last date, which was awesome, and he said he had a great time, was this past Thursday. Friday night I texted him and he texted me back. I called him Sunday night and left a voicemail asking how he was and how his weekend was...nothing back from him. Also, he hasn't kissed me yet. I don't get it.

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How much do you know about him? Is it possible he has a LDR with someone who's in town this week?

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Could he be gay?

 

I'm serious!

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