frenchwonder Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 So i dated this girl for 4 months. we complement each other so well its amazing. she went back to college for a couple months and decides that she thinks we need to take the title of boyfriend/girlfriend away so she isnt so stressed about being so busy and not putting the propper effort out in being a good girlfriend. the title was away when she went to school but when she came home she still wanted to hold hands and kiss and such. stressfull situation for me. she says she has baggage from previous ex's that she needs to get rid of. i can understand that because dont we all. my question is how much can a guy in my position actually believe. i trust her more than any girl i have ever met but at the same time its a pretty lame excuse. she wants me to wait 2 years for her but she says she doesnt know what the future will hold. i fully intend on waiting for her because she means that much to me. Am i stupid for doing this?
Perry Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 Wait 2 years for what? Is she joinng the Army?
Geishawhelk Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 So i dated this girl for 4 months. we complement each other so well its amazing. Errrr....I don't think so..... she ...decides that ...we need to take the title of boyfriend/girlfriend away so she isnt so stressed about being so busy and not putting the propper effort out in being a good girlfriend. That's the red flag, right there....!! she says she has baggage from previous ex's that she needs to get rid of. i can understand that because dont we all. Yeh, but... we work to put it down, not keep carrying it like a trophy. Seems like she's using it as a handy tool to not treat you seriously..... she wants me to wait 2 years for her but she says she doesnt know what the future will hold. Lovely. Translate this as: I want you on the sidelines, but I'll probably date other guys too.... As I'm not the title-holder of "your Girlfriend".....! i fully intend on waiting for her because she means that much to me. Am i stupid for doing this? The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Trust me, you won't be able to wait. She won't! and yes, you are. A bit.
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