Funkymonkey Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 I feel like, no matter what I do I always tend to **** things up with women I'm attracted too. Here is some background info. I'm 18 turning 19 this February. Just graduated from high school and going to a local community college. I am an attractive guy, and I am quite confident in who I am although my height does bother me quite a bit other than that things are alright. My social life is awesome, I love going out, getting wasted lol and of course meeting new people and such. Thing is I have never had a girlfriend. Have I tried? Yes, tons of times. I have had women who have been interested in me, and same thing goes for me. But still some how I always manage to flip things around and turn them away from me. Don't get my wrong, being single is great, no responsibilities and such but I really want to experience having a girlfreind, or at least one that i'm attracted too. Just don't get what I'm doing wrong. Anyone out there?
xpaperxcutx Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 I feel like, no matter what I do I always tend to **** things up with women I'm attracted too. Here is some background info. I'm 18 turning 19 this February. Just graduated from high school and going to a local community college. I am an attractive guy, and I am quite confident in who I am although my height does bother me quite a bit other than that things are alright. My social life is awesome, I love going out, getting wasted lol and of course meeting new people and such. Thing is I have never had a girlfriend. Have I tried? Yes, tons of times. I have had women who have been interested in me, and same thing goes for me. But still some how I always manage to flip things around and turn them away from me. Don't get my wrong, being single is great, no responsibilities and such but I really want to experience having a girlfreind, or at least one that i'm attracted too. Just don't get what I'm doing wrong. Anyone out there? What exactly was it that you did to make them lose interest?
Author Funkymonkey Posted December 10, 2008 Author Posted December 10, 2008 What exactly was it that you did to make them lose interest? That's what I'm trying to find out. I'm not a doormat nice guy. For some reason, they just lose interest in me.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 That's what I'm trying to find out. I'm not a doormat nice guy. For some reason, they just lose interest in me. Well how did you reciprocate when a girl tells you they're interested? Do you continuously chase them? call them non- stop? what?
Author Funkymonkey Posted December 10, 2008 Author Posted December 10, 2008 Well how did you reciprocate when a girl tells you they're interested? Do you continuously chase them? call them non- stop? what? It really depends on the situation. Ive gotten to points where a girl has literally been head over heels for me. I ask her out, no response never hear from her again. But usually when a girl tells me or gives me and indicators of interest, I'll call her to hang out, grab a bite. Get to know them, and move on with other girls, but of course i'd check in with that one and see how things are going. I'm not needy or desperate, I give space, when a girl shows interest, I return it but not in a creepy way. **** I don't know why. Is it beacuse of my height?
xpaperxcutx Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 It really depends on the situation. Ive gotten to points where a girl has literally been head over heels for me. I ask her out, no response never hear from her again. But usually when a girl tells me or gives me and indicators of interest, I'll call her to hang out, grab a bite. Get to know them, and move on with other girls, but of course i'd check in with that one and see how things are going. I'm not needy or desperate, I give space, when a girl shows interest, I return it but not in a creepy way. **** I don't know why. Is it beacuse of my height? So how tall are you?
Author Funkymonkey Posted December 10, 2008 Author Posted December 10, 2008 5'9, I feel uber short. Maybe from the group of people I grew up with since most of my freinds are about 6 to 6'4.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 5'9, I feel uber short. Maybe from the group of people I grew up with since most of my freinds are about 6 to 6'4. Actually 5'9 isn't really that short? And if you're confident as you said you are, you wouldn't be so self conscience about your height.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 Well I think that if you're just transitioning from high school to college most girls don't actually want to get serious with someone who isn't actually "settled in"? Like you're still 18 but you're a party animal so your social circle is mostly filled with girls that prefer partying and having fun over actually being in a "serious" relationship. Where do you usually meet most of these girls?
Author Funkymonkey Posted December 10, 2008 Author Posted December 10, 2008 Actually 5'9 isn't really that short? And if you're confident as you said you are, you wouldn't be so self conscience about your height. Yeah maybe, but it just seemed like it was the only reason why women just seemed to lose interest in me. Since I don't know what else I could've done wrong.
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