Lucky555 Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 I'm wondering if I should even go out on a date with this guy. Hes been in contact everyday wishes me good night He told me oh im not going out tonight....he texted me he was partying..basically he does this all weekend! Its been solid texts for 1.5 weeks now. He has answered my questions but when i ask him to tell me about himself he says i will have to wait till i see him. um I want to feel comfortable when by myself with this guy. I looked on a page on line he has....big mistake. One girl says she loves him and hopes he made it home ok from the party. I'm deeply disappointed. This guy is a party animal perhaps. I think this may be a red flag. Just tonight he told me "if you come to see me are you going to invite me to see you" he has indicated this a lot over texting! Why would he say this? Its just one date. or am i being paranoid here? I heard from two girls prior to meeting him that he "hit on them" and that i shouldn't bother. This concerns me this was after i gave him my number. These girls were not friends of mine either. I did confront him tonight about this. He said he has nothing to hide and he wanted to know who said it. I didn't tell him. Its just i needed to see what he is doing. Why would a guy text me straight since meeting me once? Why would he be suggesting to come to visit me when we have not had one date. I don't just never experienced this before.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 I once went through a similar thing. I had given my number to a guy who seemed interested, and he kept in contact with me by texting me every single day. He never bothered to actually talk to me, neither did he even try to ask anything about me. His only objective: trying to get me to go out with him. Why was that? I knew he was a party animal, he liked drinking and hitting on beautiful woman. So I turned him down. I never heard from him again. What does this have to do with you? If a guy is always pressuring to go out with you, it might not be that he actually likes you but wants to bed you.
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