singlelife Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 Hey there is a girl who is flirting with me and she does it in front of her bf. She is super and I am not trying to break that up but my friends say that she is soooo for the taking. That it's only a matter of time before she dumps him. Something doesn't seem right there and she has been telling her friends she is intrigued with me. My question is what are the signs to know when a woman is really looking elsewhere?
Author singlelife Posted December 10, 2008 Author Posted December 10, 2008 Seriously guys I need help. I kinda like this girl.
AlektraClementine Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 It really doesn't matter what the signs are. She's in another relationship. Let that one end first before you go worrying about whether or not she's "for the taking". Let me tell you something else. If you do "take her" under these circumstances, you will forever worry about who's gonna take her from you. Don't you want a girl who has more respect for her relationship?
Author singlelife Posted December 11, 2008 Author Posted December 11, 2008 Well the reason i am asking is to tell when a woman is moving on not so much for this girl but for any relationship. that's what i need the answer to. whether mine your or anyones. what are the signs
D-Lish Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 A woman is moving on when she ends her relationship. A good woman anyway. I'd see it as a red flag if a person began flirting with me and sending me singals if she is still with someone else! If she can do this in her current relationship- chances are strong that she would have no qualms about doing it to you if you got involved with her and she started losing interest. When I am done with someone, I end it before looking elsewhere. It's indicative of insecurity when a person jumps from one relationship to the next without a break. If she likes you, it's best to wait until she breaks up with her current dude. That's the only way to tell if she's ready to move on- when she cuts ties with the guy she is with.
shockandawed Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 Let me echo what the others are saying to you. Twice in my past I have been naive enough to fall for this. They were in horrible relationships, blah blah blah...I convinced myself that these were wonderful women who deserved much better than the "crap" they were getting. The White Knight to the rescue. Guess what? Both times, I was eventually dumped and they were in another relationship immediately. I am sure their new boyfriends were hearing all about how I neglected them and didn't respect them, etc...
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