tomtom26 Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 Like this new girl. She's 29, I'm 25. We have great chemistry, we laugh a lot when we're together. She's a good girl but has an edge, which I love. We've only know each for a month, have hung out in a group every weekend since we met. I can tell she likes me or has some interest. She just got out of a 3 year relationship 4 months ago because the guy wasn't ready to settle down. She is ready to settle down and I am looking for that as well. The guy is now calling her asking for her to take him back, but she's skeptical and seems to be really up in the air. Am I a possible rebound? Could she be interested in me? What should I do in this situation??
xpaperxcutx Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 Four months isn't enough for her to get over a 3 year relationship. Let her sort out her problems before diving in and ending up as the guy she temporarily dated to forget the ex. Especially since the ex isn't out of the picture, you can only be a bystander.
BubblyPopcorn Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 I agree with xpaper, even if she's over her ex meaning she has no interest in getting back with him, that is still pretty fresh especially from a three year relationship. Everyone processes emotions differently but most people carry baggage without even realizing it on the surface. It took me a long time to process everything and that was a 6 year RL and I may still have mistrust issues with certain things but all-in-all, that chapter is closed for good.
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