starwarsnerd1 Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 I am currently living with my ex, we dated for 2 yrs, then we got a new place together (cosigned = bad idea), then broke up. It's been 6 months. She is currently seeing a new guy who is up her ass all the time, I never get one on one time with her anymore to actually talk, but since he has been in the picture, we are getting along much better. She tells me not to be jealous, it's just (insert his name). What the hell does that mean? But she will walk over to him, kiss him and keep her eyes completely on me. I was sitting on my computer the one night, he was sleeping so she went to get a shower and was flashing me on purpose. I think she is trying to get a rise out of me, no pun intended, to push my buttons into doing something to try to win her back. Anyway, I've been very cordial with her the last month, I even started seeing/hanging out with a new girl. She threw a major temper tantrum the weekend the new girl was there. Probably, because someone new was taking her fallback away. The new girl, talking to me alone, mentioned the ex is still crazy for me and could see it acted out in front of her. Near the end of our relationship, I was dealing with some depression and totally gave up on everything, including her. She mentioned the break idea, and it turned into a break-up. But she constantly calls me when I'm work asking me what I am doing, how my day is going, will still buy me things. We are a perfect match, think Steve and Miranda on sex and the city. I'm the goofy broke guy and she's the realist. I can go on and on about this but I'm just wondering if anyone on here has had similiar experiences, or is able to help in any way.
Becca1979 Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 I can relate to the depression and giving up thing, it sounds to me like the both of you are playing games with each other I would try to initiate and honest open conversation to see where you both stand and go from there
EmperorR Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 reminds me of the movie the breakup, i'd seriously consider finding a new apartment
Author starwarsnerd1 Posted December 10, 2008 Author Posted December 10, 2008 We've talked multiple times, she says she loves me from the bottom of her heart. But here is the kicker, we have a 10 yr age gap and she is in college. I've also been where she is with the whole getting out and meeting new people phase. But it sucks seeing her everyday and wishing it was me in his shoes right now. I should also mention when we first started dating, I was not the nicest to her. I was wrong and made out with someone in front of her, not once but twice. She never brought it up how much it hurt her, but she knew that everything would work out in her favor. Now she says its karma kicking me. She dealt with me doing wrong things with others, now should I. But in the mean time, I guess I will keep seeing other people.
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