Trialbyfire Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 Focus on your fear of loss because no matter how you handle it, if the person has it in them to cheat, they will, regardless of what you do. Cheating is all about ego. If someone doesn't have a healthy ego, they look externally for validation. If what you provide isn't sufficient, they will look elsewhere for it. This is true for everyone to an extent. It's reasonable level of ego stroking that defines the person who won't cheat and those who will. Never fear loss. Draw your boundaries and stick to them. If he displays actions that you find unacceptable, then state them. If he continues to act the same way, then enforce your boundaries.
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