Quinch Posted December 9, 2008 Posted December 9, 2008 Last night I went on a ghost hunt which a friend of mine was leading. A few of us were joking and laughing together not realising that we could be heard upstairs where others were trying to hold a silent vigil. Today my friend sent round an email basically telling us off in no uncertain terms. I can understand she's pissed off because she's very passionate about the paranormal subject and gets defensive but I was wondering if anyone else here has ever been chewed out like that and did it affect your friendship in the long term or were you able to put it behind you?
shadyp Posted December 9, 2008 Posted December 9, 2008 ur friend is probably on her pmt's and is feelin sensitive.... ignore it. have some space for few days then start a fresh. i had a mate who i went uni with, slept at ther house, went shopping, clubbing ect... i wud share my secrets with her like my make up tips, hair colourng tips, right down to personal stuff and even my friends... she ended up screwing 1 of my male mates, she now goes out with them and not me as i am studying and she has quit uni... i heard she even made out she knew of somewhere off her own back when in fact i am the one who showed her this place... another fctor was the work copying. always copying me ideas... now we dont talk that much i think screww urself tho i keep her onside-she knows too much of my sh't. u jus gotta play em their own game and remember what they're like deep down!
Walk Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 Personally, I think you should sent a brief email saying you didn't realize your voices were interrupting them. That you had a great time, and really enjoyed yourself. Leave it at that. You said your friend was the one that lead the ghost hunt. So she organized the event? I'd try to put myself in your friends shoes temporarily. She invited you because she wanted you to have fun, but she organized it because it's something she feels strongly about. You didn't realize you were being disruptive while having fun. Your friend let you know. It sounds like she was somewhat venting about it, yet letting you know you crossed one of her lines. If it's something you can deal with, then let her know you heard her and you'll try not to cross that line again. If you don't want to tolerate her paranormal obsession then you might want to consider moving her to "acquantaince" category rather then "friend".
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