leviachan Posted December 9, 2008 Posted December 9, 2008 Ahh. Can anyone help me with this, please~? Well, there's this guy at school... he's in two of my classes. We're both in band at school, and often see each other at concerts and on field trips and such. I've talked to him a bit, but not very much. I've had two or three long conversations with him over the past few months, but we only exchange hellos and talk about classwork most of the time. Well, for the longest time (seven months), I've really liked him... but I'm too shy to say anything about it. So... how can I tell him...?
kimflute26 Posted December 9, 2008 Posted December 9, 2008 If I were you I would try to develop the friendship more first. Once I was JUST like you.... had a crush on a guy who was in band with me at school. We kinda knew each other but weren't really "friends." Finally I told him I liked him and he was just like, "Awwww I'm flattered...." and um.... yeah that's pretty much it. I was head over heels for that guy. But with my current guy, we were friends before getting together. We hung out, went to a movie, talked, took walks, etc. And we've been together for almost a year and a half
Rebellious Posted December 9, 2008 Posted December 9, 2008 You don't have to tell him, just smile a lot and drool all over him, and if that fails, flash him.
Perry Posted December 9, 2008 Posted December 9, 2008 Make up a place you are going to "sometime this week." Like a movie, bowling, or a bite out to eat to get out of the house for a bit. Then instead of asking for a date, casually invite him along, like you would to another friend. You are going anyway, and you are just inviting him along. Or, leave the door open for him to walk in. Example: "I'm going over to _____ sometime this week to grab a bit to eat. If you want to get out of the house for while, let me know." If he is interested, you just gave him a golden opportunity to go out with you.
Author leviachan Posted December 10, 2008 Author Posted December 10, 2008 We'll both be at a concert at school tonight. What should I say?
Author leviachan Posted December 10, 2008 Author Posted December 10, 2008 Ahhh. D: I didn't get a chance to talk to him at all! Now what? What if I write him a note?
Ronni_W Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 I wouldn't write a note. What didn't you like about Perry's suggestions?
Author leviachan Posted December 10, 2008 Author Posted December 10, 2008 What didn't you like about Perry's suggestions? well~ it's not that I didn't like the suggestions. It's just that there isn't anywhere to go around here. Everything is too far away, and I have no way to get anywhere.
Ronni_W Posted December 10, 2008 Posted December 10, 2008 Fair enough. What would you write in a note that you can't just say to him in person? -- to me it might put you in the best light if you just tell it to him (even if you have to kind of memorize it...but don't "deliver" it like a recitation -- show your warm and human side, I mean.)
Author leviachan Posted December 14, 2008 Author Posted December 14, 2008 Okie dokie. I'll just kinda jot down a couple of things that I'd like to say, and keep them in mind for whenever I talk to him. I'm always afraid to say something... wrong... though. So what kind of things should I avoid saying...? I'm pretty sure that I'm going to see him after a school thingy on Tuesday night, so yayyy.
Recommended Posts