mswonderful Posted December 9, 2008 Posted December 9, 2008 I've been on 3 dates with a 26 year old guy I really, really like. We always have a great time when we're together. Laughing the whole time, talking, flirting, playing, etc. We have easy 45 min phone conversations where they're just as awesome. He takes me to nice places, pays, opens doors for me, has expressed jealousy toward other guys in my life, asks me tons of questions about my life including what I do during daytime hours on weekends...however, he hasn't even kissed me yet. I'm so confused. On our last date, he drove by the place he works and pointed it out to me and pointed out where his grandfather is buried, asks me about my relationship with my parents...I am sooo confused. However, I've only been seeing him once a week and this guy I'm dating isn't very aggressive with contacting me. Is this "just taking it slow" or does it mean he's some kind of player, or maybe not very interested? If he was really into me wouldn't he want to see me more often? When do I have the right to ask him how he feels without seeming like I want to rush into a relationship w/ him and scare him off?
refurb Posted December 9, 2008 Posted December 9, 2008 From what you've said it sounds like he's really into you, so he's likely just taking it slow. He's probably trying to read you and not doing a good job of it. How much effort have you put into encouraging him? Do you suggest getting together more often? RF
Geishawhelk Posted December 9, 2008 Posted December 9, 2008 Try taking the lead! Heck, you're a 'woman of today', aren't you?
serialgf Posted December 9, 2008 Posted December 9, 2008 do you know anything about his past relationships? often that is a good way to gauge how your guy "handles" relationships. if he's been slow to get into LTR's or to get physical then you know that's just how he works. i wouldn't assume anything about anyone i don't know so well. guys all work differently and whereas not kissing you might means certain guys don't like you, it might mean the complete opposite for a slow-moving guy! good luck!
Cherry Blossom 35 Posted December 9, 2008 Posted December 9, 2008 I think we're dating the same guy. I think he's just slow moving. You might ask him if he wants to do something fun and casual with your friends. Say, hey my friends and I are going to get margaritas Thursday after work, wanna come?
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