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So I was just wondering today...

 

I'm definetely pushing myself to get over my ex because I am sick of being sad over him...But I still feel angry in a way that he got out of all this soo easy...He told me he had been feeling this way (losing feelings for me) for a couple of months but he didnt tell me untill 4 months later...MEANING he made sure he had someone else (HIS EX!! UGHH) to "talk to" and "date"....so basically he had been over it while i was hurt and devastated.

 

 

The weird part, the more I showed him I was hurt, the FASTER it seemed he had moved on...I think I'm slowly getting over him (because i have to of course) but it bothers me that i suffered soo much when i honestly dont feel like i deserved it..

 

I guess you could say I want some kind of satisfaction out of this...something that makes me feel like "Okay now there's justice"...I went NC he never even cared to call...I dont know its just weird...I want something to make it right...i'm moving on BUT somehow it gets me angry that he got away with hurting me...i know for a fact he was talking to his ex before ending it with me so that makes me feel like i was "emotionally cheated on" :mad: I feel MUCHH better today though...this is the only thing bothering me..i want JUSTICE! hahahaha :-D lol

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I know exactly how you feel, about the justice thing. My ex cheated on me dumped, a week later found a new guy at school, got a TA position, got a scholaship from a essay that I WROTE. It seems her life is sparkling great not a care in the world, off scott free for murdering my heart and trust in women. I'm just holding firm to what goes around and karma.

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I used to be consumed by extreme anger caused by the fact that she got off so easy, ruined more people after me and is still doing great, with no consequences. I used to think that one major drawback of NC is that you'll never see your ex pay for what they did and be able to indulge in it.

 

But that's the point of NC, so that you never see them again and never hear news of them again.

 

Karma does work. Eventually everyone has to experience what they caused others to feel, be it good or bad, because that's how things work, like it or not. You reap what you sow.

 

And besides, even assuming it doesn't work, people who wrong you can't possibly be happy and content people. Their hearts are cold and unable to love, they will always be dissatisfied and discontent with their situation. I can say this because I know my ex. She can lay 5 new guys every month, but that doesn't change the fact that she is deeply unhappy and has to seek external validation and support all her life in order to feel normal.

 

Let them go and let their lives take care of themselves. Your ex is someone else's problem now. You learned many valuable things, that's your reward for making it through this nasty period :)

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yes same for me, he is off happy and free and I'm stuck in an emotional prison.

 

But the only thing that gives me peace is to know Karma can be a b*tch:laugh:

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The best revenge is to live your life fabulously! And better than him. And if karma does something to him, that's a bonus :D

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Sure I have felt the way your feeling a few times in my life. It's only natural to want to see another who has hurt you bad suffer the same sort of pain. But, it's not worth it. You need to be the bigger person and walk away knowing that you are. Forget and one day perhaps forgive. Best wishes.

 

AP:)

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its not that i want him to suffer...i just want him to regret his decision or i dunno...SOMETHING...i find this whole thing soooo unfair but then again like many people said...time to focus on US and not THEM!!!

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argh! It's a b*tch how they hang around until they find that safety net to fall into. I sure want justice too. If I got justice though I wouldn't have anything to be angry about :p Things would be even. There is justice in the fact that she is a b*tch who f*cks people over and I'm not. Sucks to be her!

 

Oh man, she has so much Karma coming her way. I usually don't believe in it, but if it's true she REALLY has it coming to her. AFter she f*cked me over and was trying to find a new place she told these people she would like to move in but she wouldn't be able to for a month. So the people save her the room (turning down others who would have paid for the room that month) because they liked her so much. A month later she says she found a new cheaper place with a co-worker and screws these guys over. Oh man I could go on. Stealing, lying, deceiving... I don't believe in karma though But knowing she's a b*tch is good enough for me.

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So I was just wondering today...

 

I'm definetely pushing myself to get over my ex because I am sick of being sad over him...But I still feel angry in a way that he got out of all this soo easy...He told me he had been feeling this way (losing feelings for me) for a couple of months but he didnt tell me untill 4 months later...MEANING he made sure he had someone else (HIS EX!! UGHH) to "talk to" and "date"....so basically he had been over it while i was hurt and devastated.

 

 

The weird part, the more I showed him I was hurt, the FASTER it seemed he had moved on...I think I'm slowly getting over him (because i have to of course) but it bothers me that i suffered soo much when i honestly dont feel like i deserved it..

 

I guess you could say I want some kind of satisfaction out of this...something that makes me feel like "Okay now there's justice"...I went NC he never even cared to call...I dont know its just weird...I want something to make it right...i'm moving on BUT somehow it gets me angry that he got away with hurting me...i know for a fact he was talking to his ex before ending it with me so that makes me feel like i was "emotionally cheated on" :mad: I feel MUCHH better today though...this is the only thing bothering me..i want JUSTICE! hahahaha :-D lol

 

I know exactly how you feel. I woke up this morning just angry. Like you I didnt deserve this and how unfair it is. But love is not fair. THAT is why you must be careful when you put yourself out there. LOVE IS NOT FAIR. Remember that.

 

Another thing, you dont know if he is hurt or not over you. I dont think it is always that easy. You benefit too from NC because he does not have the chance to see you hurting. For all he know, you are moving along fine.

They feel our pain. It is not a walk in the park all the time.

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Things would be even. There is justice in the fact that she is a b*tch who f*cks people over and I'm not. Sucks to be her!

 

Haha, I gotta love this! It's so true.

Just knowing what she's like is a clear indication she is full of issues, and I'm not. I know I could never do that to people and that makes me happy. I tell you, no matter how happy these women seem on the outside, they are most definitely not! They are also tortured by their own actions, they're just repressing it.

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