Quinch Posted December 8, 2008 Posted December 8, 2008 For the past couple of years I've taken myself 'Off the Market'. I haven't actively been looking for a girlfriend because I don't feel ready. I don't have a job or my own apartment so I'm holding back until I've sorted my life out and I'm in a better position to start looking again. I know it's stupid but I still sometimes browse on dating websites - just out of interest to see what girls are out there. I hide my own profile though. Sometimes I come across a girl who seems absolutely perfect for me and ticks all the boxes. But I can't do anything about it because I'm not ready. I have to let the opportunity pass. I just worry that, when I am ready (which might be another year or two), it might be too late. The girls that are perfect for me now aren't going to be there in two years. I shouldn't do it because I just depress myself. Am I doing right by waiting or should I take the risks now?
wmast Posted December 8, 2008 Posted December 8, 2008 With a little over 3 billion women in the world and more being born every few seconds it'll never be too late. Sort out your issues and when you're ready you'll be able to accept women into your life. If you don't feel comfortable about your current situation you may have a hard time making the women comfortable. Just wait it out until you're ready. You'll be fine!
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