EmperorR Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 Surfer, everything you say is 100% on. I don't want to keep replaying these things. Its just hard when I live in the home we built together, work in the same job I did when things were perfect between us, have the same daily routine. Its like everything is the same except she's no longer part of it. How do you push the memories out? Time, soon you'll find someone better than your ex and those memories will be replaced with even greater ones.
Surfer Dude Posted December 11, 2008 Posted December 11, 2008 Surfer, everything you say is 100% on. I don't want to keep replaying these things. Its just hard when I live in the home we built together, work in the same job I did when things were perfect between us, have the same daily routine. Its like everything is the same except she's no longer part of it. How do you push the memories out? You don't push the memories out, they always remain, and at some point in the future you might even remember the good times and enjoy those memories. What needs to disappear is pain associated with those memories, i.e. pain of loss. It's best to leave them alone for a while until you heal. Remeber, it's not memories that are haunting you, it's you who is haunting them Focus on something else.
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