Less Posted December 8, 2008 Posted December 8, 2008 Hello! I'm new here, I'm 18 and a guy. I need some advice, not so sure where this is suppose to be posted so I'm sorry if it's in the wrong place. I'm in retail n such and this girl who i'm attracted to keeps getting eye contact with me. She keeps looking at me, I know because when I look at her she's looking at me and when I look at her she looks away. This has been happening since I started like a month ago. For weeks the eye contact has been happening more often, and now a lot, like now its playful, if that makes sense. I don't really know how to explain what I think is going on, but i'll try. So.. basically I think it as kinda like playful flirt game, eye contact game lol? If that makes any sense. Like, idk it keeps happening, everytime I look over at her shes looking right back at me. She'd be far away from me also and I can see her looking right back at me. I talk to everyone a lot exept her and she does the same. Communication by eye contact? lol, sounds funny if it's real. So anyway, can anyone help me figure out what this means. I know I should talk to her and spark a conversation but what does this mean from the staring, eye contact thing.. y'know? Take your time replying, theres plenty of posts on the forum that relate to relationship problems n such, I know there probably seeking help aswell, take them first before me, their more important. I'm patient, I just need some.. idk really what i'm asking for, just I guess what is she doing?
Gremio Posted December 8, 2008 Posted December 8, 2008 You must be very shy to not even approach her for an entire month. Go talk to her!
Author Less Posted December 8, 2008 Author Posted December 8, 2008 You must be very shy to not even approach her for an entire month. Go talk to her! I've talked to her before, just.. not by myself I guess. When I'm around people I'm very talkative, I get along with everyone but when I'm in a room with her, and just her everything changes and I suddenly become dumb and quite, not a good mix =\.
Gremio Posted December 8, 2008 Posted December 8, 2008 I've talked to her before, just.. not by myself I guess. When I'm around people I'm very talkative, I get along with everyone but when I'm in a room with her, and just her everything changes and I suddenly become dumb and quite, not a good mix =\. I take it you two are around 18 years old. Just realize you will have nothing if you don't do anything. Build up your confidence. Ask her what she is into if you don't know what to say. Music, bands, her hobbies, etc.
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