Whitefox123 Posted December 7, 2008 Posted December 7, 2008 hello everyone! I havent posted on here in awhile, but I have just been scanning through other people's posts! I need some advice though! (Duh! Why else would I be on here?) About 6 months ago I got out of a relationship and ever since then it has been a crazy emotional ride. I've woken up within the last 2 months or so and I realized I deserve better than him and don't deserve the stress he's put on me! Well anyway, I started talking to this guy. I've known him for many many years and we were never really what you would call close. Out of nowhere around the same time I realized I was wasting my time on my ex, he (new/old guy) contacted me and we've been talking almost non stop ever since. (the last time I saw him was 3.5 years ago...up until a few weeks ago) We talk through text quite a bit and I enjoy spending time with him....for the little bit that we have gotten to spend together in person! Something I really enjoy is the fact that he'll randomly text me to see how my day is going, or if he knows I'm getting out of work/school at a certain time, he'll text me close to those times to see how things were. It really brings a smile to my face. a few times, hes invited me to hang out with him and his buddies and told me to bring my girls too....and even when I told him they couldn't come he still said that I should.... Now with that being said, I wonder if the feelings I have for him are mutual. I have quite a crush on him and I am not sure if I am reading too much into the things he says/does. My friends say I'm not....that it sounds good to them, but I'm just nervous because I haven't had to 'play the game' in years....and especially since I've known him for so long...and we actually never used to get along....its just funny how all the sudden he can bring a smile to my face and I look forward each day to talking with him! So were do you think I should go from here? Does it sound like I stand a chance?
Gremio Posted December 7, 2008 Posted December 7, 2008 It's hard to say because what I would do is different since I am a male. I would say let him know you are definately interested. Perhaps by asking questions such as if he's seeing anyone. He may get the hint into the true reason why you're asking the question and realize you like him.
Author Whitefox123 Posted December 7, 2008 Author Posted December 7, 2008 Well thank you for your advice! I know he isn't seeing anyone though, so I guess that's a good start! I did manage to tell him today that I really enjoy spending time with him.....that was my hint to him and it went over well I think so anyway.....
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