I think my Ex is hinting at a FWB relationship... I am outraged? *Quite Long*

[serendipity_2008]

Well my story goes like this. My ex broke up with me and was seeing another woman IMMEDIATELY. I am almost positive he was with her while we were dating, but I never had any concrete evidence of it. I was so upset and hurt that he'd dump me, but i am moving on to the best of my ability. Although he never verbalized it, 1 of the main reason I was dumped is bc i wouldn't put out. I am 21 and am a virgin and I want to lose my virginity to some-1 I marry or someone who has showed me they wanted a true committement.

 

From his behavior, he obviously wasn't wanting 2 commit but i suppose he stayed with me to try to break me. It got to the pt. where he would hump on me and turn everything into something sexual. From filthy text messages to begging me to either have phone sex or send nude pics. So let's fast foward the situation, he eventually dumps me tells me to never contact him again and that he never loved me and how i should move on. So i did.

 

Then a few days later (not even a wk) he suddenly initiates contact and b4 i learned abt the NC rule i responded. Most of his calls where either texts or calls that consisted of "just wanted to make sure u r ok." and he even told me that i had better not be seeing other men?? WTF

 

So the final call i received from him was Nov 28th and he said that he was calling to check on me and make sure i am ok. Then we chit chatted about life and he finally asked me if we could mess around. I immediately told him no and that i wasn't that type of woman. Once i turn him down he starts bragging about his current gf and how his mom loves her and how he misses her so. I was like that's great and played it off and told him i had 2 go.

 

I am just suprised that he'd even ask me to mess around especially since he has a gf who he "loves" and misses etc (as he claims). What is up with this scenario. I mean when he dumped me i never expected to hear from again. The things he said to me where soo harsh and all of a sudden he makes contact. What is going on here... has any-1 else had an ex to do this. Btw my ex is 20 but geez he's immature.

 

Also just want to let u guys know that he dumped me on Oct 26th and but was still contacting me.

[Your Favourite Smile]

Yeah.. sounds like he was using you..

Maybe he got a little bored with the other girl, so he thought he would try it again with you to see if you would give in.

 

In my opinion he isnt the commitment sort, and wont mature for a while

 

He isnt worth it, you should lose your virginity to someone who is worth it, committed to you, and has a level of understanding.

 

This guy definitely isnt worth your time.