sacg Posted December 6, 2008 Posted December 6, 2008 if you want a better picture, please read my other posts. bottom line, bumped into her yesterday out shopping and met her new fella. turns out he was a mate of mine that I took in when he was severly depressed and harming himself. he repays me by getting with my woman in the 3 months prior to her leaving me. they still say nothing happended, Mmm. Seeing them was madness, she actually looked poor, bad clothes, black eyes, just different and ****. And he was a mess too, fat twat. when we met him, he was a mess, depressed, harming himself, on drugs badly and a loser. why did she fall for him? he has just got rights to see his kids again and is in councelling, but what would she want with this guy? Ok, hes a nice bloke, but with major issues. She suffers from depression too, is that the bond? Does she feel she needs to save him, help him. this is awful
TeaAbraham Posted December 6, 2008 Posted December 6, 2008 Seems to me like you're the one who lucked out in all this. It does suck being lied to. Liars simply don't deserve my time.
Tarantula Posted December 6, 2008 Posted December 6, 2008 It sucks.I understand your feelings.But if you are off the relationship,both of you,you and her,then why you are yelling Now? Just let her stay with him she wants to be with . God bless!
Peter_pan Posted December 7, 2008 Posted December 7, 2008 you sound better off out of it mate. but i know that whole situation plain sucks
Surfer Dude Posted December 7, 2008 Posted December 7, 2008 Like other posters said, it must feel bad to have this happened you, but you're better of without her. Look at how miserable they are. Would you like to be in his shoes? Didn't think so
Author sacg Posted December 8, 2008 Author Posted December 8, 2008 Ok, all taken on board. she mailed today asking if we want to talk. i did. We met and she was more unsure than shes ever been, but not over commiting to anything.. i love her so much, im worried for her and i dont know if she knows her own mind or whats really going on. What do i do. i love her, i want her, this is a mess. i think shes lost the plot and just got lost in helping him through all this mad depression, etc?
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