He texted!

[sas218]

He broke up with me seven months ago, with many lingering questions left behind. I finally went NC in august and have not heard from him since September. Although, I still think about him often, the sting and pain have gradually subsided. I have begun to think about him and him and I less and less.

I had to hospitalized this week due to an illness, so my phone was off. He called a mutual friend to find out why my phone was off for two days. I guess I have been on my mind. He now wants to tell me Why to all the questions that he left me with all the way back in May. He texted me the next day to see if i was okay. I answered with, I'm pretty sick but I'll be fine and ended the conversation. He asked if he could come see me in the hospital for five minutes. I didn't respond. He told me there were a few things he needed to talk to me about.

I am not sure how to handle the next text or call that I know is coming. They whys don't really seem that important anymore. I don't want to allow him to use me to make himself feel better. I know that his girlfriend doesn't know that he made contact with me. I am not the kind of girl who talks to a guy behind his girlfriends back even though they did it to me. I am really confused about what to do...HELP!!!!

[kizik]

ignore ignore ignore

[Dmoney28]

girl...ignore him. WTH, he didnt want to answer your questions? dont even respond...he dosent deserve it. if you respond ...tell him to bring his GF and explain the reasons. IGNORE HIM

[sas218]

He texted again just to check in and see how I was feeling. Why is he doing this? Why now? He has a new life and girlfriend!

[EmperorR]

ignore ignore ignore

 

I agree you were doing fine finally getting over him, and I guess that thing dumpers get oh no I don't have control over them anymore iniate contact feeling came back. Just ignore delete stop wondering and move on.