Am i being Paranoid???

[Heartsburstintofire]

I recently split with my gf of nearly 6 years and had to move back to my hometown as we were living together. She said to me about a day after splitting that she has feelings for a bloke she has been speaking to online and that he has feelings for her too....this is the kicker when we were on a break before we split she kissed him and then told me she had made a mistake and wanted to get back together. Me being devastated at taking a break 1st time around whole heartedly said yes....then 5 days later she breaks up with me by text message..

 

I see her on facebook and all of a sudden pictures of her and this bloke appear everywhere, am i being paranoid but its killing me.....

 

should i just forget everything we've been through or bide my time...shes broke my heart twice already i dont think i can wait for her to make a mistake again..

[Geishawhelk]

Look at the dust-trail she's left behind her.

 

He's not a possibility.

You're history.

 

You and she are over.

Finished.

 

Delete her from every single available place, and go no contact.

 

This is a non-runner, from right here, right now.

 

Sorry, man.

[Surfer Dude]

Start your no contact, don't reply to her messages, don't answer her calls. It's the easiest way for you to get over it. If a girlfriend of 6 years suddenly falls in "love" with some chump she met online, she's not worth your time. What kind of person would throw away 6 years of a good relationship to be with someone they barely know? What kind of person has the nerve to break up with a long term partner and then put pictures of her new guy on her facebook? Ditch the bitch.

 

I've been in the same boat as you. Run as fast as you can, don't look back, she'll make your life a hell if you stay in touch.

 

I probably sound pissed off in this post, it's likely because the same thing happened to me, except that my relationship didn't last as long as yours. Screw that douchebag, she doesn't deserve to hear a word from you. Just hearing about the likes of her makes me wanna puke.

[stoneymirror]

Run and never look back. She sounds so messed up and obviously isn't very loyal or honest with you. As hard as it is to walk away from a 6 yr relatioship it's best that it happened now rather than 5 yrs into a marriage. Take this time to reflect a little on some of the things you can work on to improve upon your next relationship.

 

Think of it this way, she did you a huge favor, cause I'm sure you never expected this sort of thing and now you can finally see this girl's true colors. She's a complete ass who doesn't deserve you anyhow. She deserves a loser, and I'm sure the other dude is one.

 

Don't ever call or contact her again. I can bet you a $100 that this fling of hers will die very quickly cause it's been founded on deception. Who in their right mind is going to be serious with someone who's been fooling around on their significant other. If this guy has any sence himself he'll soon realize this ex of yours isn't one to trust. She's obviously a mess and is only making things worse for herself and everyone around her. You don't want to be with someone this messed up.

 

Get your confidence back and go out and meet someone new. It can be as little as just having another girl to talk to as a friend, but you need to realize this ex of yours was no good. She prolly turned you into someone you didn't even want to be. And maybe in the back of your head you already knew this was coming. Things happen for a reason. One door closes another is open. Focus on that open door so you don't miss what might an opportunity to meet your wife.

 

What she did to you was not loving in any sense, she's abused you and you have been tricked to going back. Break out of that submissive shell she put you in and realize you deserve much better.

 

Today's a new day, wouldn't it be nice to meet someone that actually shares some of the same values as you do. This last one of yours obviously didn't