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Boyfriend's Doubts


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To my face, my boyfriend is making plans for Christmas, acting like everything is fine, bought $200 tix to the Rockettes in 2 weeks... but on another forum, he wrote that he has "doubts about the relationship weekly or daily."

 

I don't know what to do. Do you think he wants to break up? When we fought this past weekend, I suggested maybe we break up and he said no.

 

I am just so confused. :( What are your thoughts?

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Well, what do you want? You suggested that you break up but now it seems as thought you worried he wants to break up with you. Figure that part out first and then move on from there.

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i dont want to break up at all. i just dont want him to be unhappy and it seems that he is.

 

i love him very much, more than anyone else i ever have been with. im not young (almost 30), so it's not like this is a puppy love i cant get over.

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You need to confront him about his post on another forum.

To post something, knowing you might see it, and not have discussed it with you, whilst playing all "Mr Happy Family" on the other hand, is both tactless and unkind.

 

Did he know you'd seen it, or would be able to?

Either way, I think you should point out to him that you know about it and speak to him.

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