Nearly everything is reminding me of him, all the time..he isnt going!

[Your Favourite Smile]

Ok, ive posted before in the Breakups section, my thread about it being right or not to leave the person that i love.

This involves not having any contact with him, as ive been left with not much choice.

 

But.. he is everywhere, his name pops up.. i thought i saw him today even, but i wasnt too sure. Little things remind me of him, things im not in control of..

 

Well.. a silly thing had to happen.

 

I gave my mum my phone today to borrow, and it turns out that because my phone wasnt locked, it accidently called him.

He has texted me asking if i had tried to call, but im not going to reply.

This just frustrates me now..

Now it seems to him that ive actually TRIED to call

Things inside are telling me that these reminders of him cannot be stopped..

 

This reminds of the film Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.

 

What is happening?!

 

Ergh

[alwayssme]

its perfectly normal for that to happen. Believe me I been there. i spent every single day with my ex and everything and every place reminded me of him. I'm still not over him so there are still many places that remind me of him (our romantic places) which i dont go to because i will only remember him and feel like crap...however my college used to remind me of him too..but now its jsut that..my college...because i got used to being there without him...sometimes it still stings because memories come back but i try to remain strong because this is life and it has pain...as much as it hurts, you just have to deal with it untill one day it'll be gone!

[Your Favourite Smile]

Im happy that someone can relate to this, at the moment i feel as though im always going to have these remainders..

 

Which i might.. but maybe i wont think of them as annoyances..

 

Maybe to just accept that these things will happen..and as a result the thoughts of the past will fade.

 

It doesnt help that i think about him a bit too much..

I still love him, although im not going to try again with him.

Ive been given the impression he doesnt want a relationship, and i accept that.

[BCCA]

I moved to another city with my ex, and we lived there for 2 years together. When she left me, aside from the fact that the apartment I was stuck with for another year was now half empty, everywhere I went reminded me of her. I had only been to everywhere near my house, grocery store-dry cleaner-gas station, with her.

 

Eventually, I just rearranged my house, and slowly got by until I could move. As time goes on, it does get easier. Honestly, as much as it sucks right now, let it hurt. Its much better to just go through hell now, get it out of your system, and move on.