Tryng2Trust08 Posted December 5, 2008 Posted December 5, 2008 I can't stop blaming myself for things that went wrong with my BF. I feel like he did everything he could to keep the relationship going but I was the one who pushed away from him, something didn't feel right to me. I wanted to give him a chance, but I was very nervous the whole time. Like I ruined our relationship and friendship. Why would I do this? If he gave me every chance in the world to save our relationship, tried more than any other guy I dated why did I push him away?
alwayssme Posted December 5, 2008 Posted December 5, 2008 *sigh* That is something I am struggling with among many things..the guilt of things I did wrong...and it makes me sad that now I have changed soooo much, (amazing how much suffering helps you grow and shapes u into a better more mature person) he wont give me another chance. It hurts alot, because he wont get to see who I have become and how good i would treat him now. But remember we're all human and make mistakes so dont beat yourself up over it too much!
BrianG Posted December 6, 2008 Posted December 6, 2008 He never gave up because he loved you. There are ups and downs and problems in every relationship. The ones that last are with two people that never give up on the love they have. You have to do some soul searching to figure out why you pushed him away. Sorry, this may sound a little jaded considering I was on the opposite end. I never gave up, but she gave up on us. Everything happens for a reason I guess
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