Lucky555 Posted December 5, 2008 Posted December 5, 2008 Two options: I do not know either one well enough to decide. I don't know if i even want a relationship with either one due to this. What do i do? They both want to a date almost around the same time! Guy A: good job goal orientated smart funny kind of attractive emails, never calls wants another date. SEVERE distance between us. very good background Dislikes: Does not feel the need to email back when he reads his messages. I'm thinking this may be a sign of low interest. I think the guy should be crazy about the person hes interested in seeing. He never texts or calls. Emails every other day. A friend says he is SHY! I'm sorry but I want the guy to know what he wants and go for it. Guy B: Attractive did not go to college Funny From another country Playing sports in the U.S. here/does not have a well paying job Texts me every night distance is not far but there is some. have not been on a date, met at a club. He has been keeping his word of texting me each night. He asks how my day was, he wants to know how i am ect. He initiates the conversations He has already invited me to one of his games. His texts are very sweet He has stated he can't wait to see me! Dislikes: He smokes. I do not like smoking. I don't know how long he is here in the US. But I can ask him questions.
Gremio Posted December 5, 2008 Posted December 5, 2008 I say the third option: neither. You list some good cons to each, which would have you settling. When you settle, you will never be happy.
PrincessPeach Posted December 5, 2008 Posted December 5, 2008 I think you probably like Guy A better. Whether you want a relationship with either... I don't think I'd worry about that specifically. Just go out with both or either of them and some have fun (having some fun does not necessarily mean fooling arond ). If you end up falling into a relationship with either, then that's great. If not, at least you enjoyed YOURSELF. I think the guy should be crazy about the person hes interested in seeing. He never texts or calls. Emails every other day. A friend says he is SHY! I'm sorry but I want the guy to know what he wants and go for it. I think this is a problem with your own thinking/expectations rather than a problem with him. So what if he doesn't respond to every email or message. Not everything requires being replied to. If he's shy his way for knowing what he wants and going for it might be different that what you expect. That doesn't mean he isn't going for it. If that something that's a dealbreaker for you, then so be it.
Author Lucky555 Posted December 5, 2008 Author Posted December 5, 2008 So ill just get to know both. I am going on dates with both and im open to dating new guys in my whole process here. Guy A- not giving me enough "i want you" feeling because I read his emails and its not like "exciting me" In the beginning he seemed like he was consistent but then his emails started to become less and less "flirty" and more "friendish" I can't base everything on an email so I am going on a date with him. Guy B- I get this exciting feeling, he texts me and is so funny! I feel myself compelled to go on a date with him because hes been honest and sticking to his word! HE Contacts me EVERY NIGHT back and forth texting. He tells me good night and sleep well and its just sweeping me off my feet! I feel like he cares. I know i have to go on a date with this one just by the feeling i get. I feel adored and i feel like he is happy too just as i am. But i can't base everything on texting so i need to see what hes like on a date. With guy A i don't feel adored, because i'm not getting a "romantic vibe" like with guy B. So i know some say neither and maybe this will be the outcome. But I'm willing to go out on these dates to determine how i feel about each one. These dates will be the cut offs basically. If they don't fit the par then I'm on to new horizons If I'm lucky enough to find the spark then its off with one of them.
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