katrik Posted December 5, 2008 Posted December 5, 2008 OK!! I was online last night, I signed in the dating website and I was working on something else, she msg'd me and then I said I am having problem with my internet connection. So she said we can talk on the phone and she gave me her number and asked me to call(Yeah!! it happend in few mins). We spoke for few mins say 20-30mins and then I dont want to keep dragging the conversation, so I said I will talk to you later as I got to do something......But she seems to be a smart girl with her head on her shoulders......... Since she hit on me so strongly I am not sure should I call her back today? The problem is she will be back only 10:30pm from work so I told her so if you feel like talking after that give me a call...she immediately said " you can also give me a call I am not exhausted after my work usually...." but I'm confused we just spoke yesterday for the first time but since she came on to me so strongly I dont want to step back but at the same time I dont want to be too needy or scare her....so should I wait for her call again or should I call her today or tommorow? help me I only have few hours left :-(
Gremio Posted December 5, 2008 Posted December 5, 2008 " you can also give me a call I am not exhausted after my work usually...." This sounds to me like she wants you to call her tonight. Besides, what do you have to lose? Well nothing at the moment, but he is right. If he just met her, calling her immediately can worry some people. It's a touchy situation, this dating game. Why can't people just grow up and be straight? Hah.
Author katrik Posted December 5, 2008 Author Posted December 5, 2008 she said that becaz I told her give me a call when you are free since you will be coming home late at night.....I am not sure she meant the next day.
Author katrik Posted December 5, 2008 Author Posted December 5, 2008 " you can also give me a call I am not exhausted after my work usually...." This sounds to me like she wants you to call her tonight. Besides, what do you have to lose? she said that becaz I told her give me a call when you are free since you will be coming home late at night.....I am not sure she meant the next day....besides she seems to be a nice and matured girl, so I dont want to lose...
Author katrik Posted December 5, 2008 Author Posted December 5, 2008 I hear you. I think you're the best person to judge this because you heard her tone. You said that she immediately said "you can also give me a call" This sounds like a green light to me - if the tone is right. If things turn south it won't be the fault of calling the next day. If the conversation went well yesterday she'll be hoping you'll call her tonight (so call at like, 11:15 or so, make her wait for it). Besides, the girl seems to move fast. Additionally you can wait until tomorrow or the next day. Remember, the general rule after first contact is 1 to 3 days. I know what you mean, but honestly I have no clue what kind of tone was that becaz I can read faces but over the phone....hmmmm I usualy wait for a day or two at the max after she gives her number but this time probably i will wait for her call today. Else I will do what my heart desires...
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