Author Ostia Posted December 7, 2008 Author Posted December 7, 2008 He MAY be concerned about being tired and the long trip (although it is only half of yours). He may want to get a shower and a nap in before he sees you. You just won't know until you get there. So it is one of those things you HAVE to quit worrying about. As far as him saying he misses you, etc. Why don't you quit saying that? I mean this sincerely. Just quit making those kinds of comments. You aren't getting responses you want (we can't control others ). Your questions aren't going to go away until you are there with him. I have a feeling you express your feelings all the time - maybe you should just pull back a little bit. Perhaps he doesn't get a chance to say how he is feeling or tell you he misses you because you beat him to the punch. And you are still going to go on that trip regardless of what others say here. So just take a breath. Take a big step back and resolve yourself to just enjoy each other right now. Thank you a great advise . I won't express my feelings as strongly anymore and see what happens . Thanks again!!!
Athena Posted December 7, 2008 Posted December 7, 2008 Thanks Ostia, I have begun some research into Hovawarts now!! I will let you know... although it's probably best to get a puppy in the Spring... it snowed today! Yeah, I know they prefer cooler temperatures as dogs, since they have nice coats, but I would love to frolic outdoors in the yard with my new puppy when I get it! You have been a great help. BTW I agree with Island Girl -- guys are odd like that... when you talk about missing him & emotions and ask too many questions, guys pull back... it's best for you to 'withdraw' a little from that aspect, and then they come bounding back. Women seek to Connect. Men seek Independence, but then get lonely and come back... you have gotta give him a chance to feel that loneliness, lol
Federica Posted December 7, 2008 Posted December 7, 2008 If you guys are going to talk about dogs, please start a new thread. Off-topic posts are usually discouraged and either deleted or put elsewhere. As posts are mixed up here, neither solution is practical. But feel free to take it to a new forum... I'm sure there will be interest, if you make it general enough. Thanks
Meet 4 Coffee Posted December 29, 2008 Posted December 29, 2008 Hey Ostia, how did all this turn out? Did he pick you up at the airport or not? How's the visit going?
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