germanbabe Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 I am just curious about what time of day people like to have sex. Most men I've been with like it first thing in the morning, whereas I like it at night. Is this true for others? When is your favorite time of day (or night) to have sex?
berrieh Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Honestly, I most like to have sex mid-morning, but I rarely am able to, with work, etc. But that's when I most crave it, ironically. I tend to prefer sex at night because I like sleeping in, and prefer morning-sleep, and morning sex takes away from morning-sleep. If I don't have to get up, morning sex is good, too. I prefer sex when I'm least tired, which, for me, is generally anytime from around 10am to 1pm or so and then about 4pm to midnight. I'm a night person, I guess, but I usually get a lot of energy mid-morning, then crash, then get a second wind, then crash and sleep.
carhill Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 My wife is more like a man (anytime/anywhere) but generally prefers afternoon and evenings. My personal experience has been, when I feel close to a lady and intimate with her emotionally, I don't have any special hormonal times. Sexual desire flows from the emotional intimacy. Absent that, generally, my testosterone is highest between 4 and 8am, so, from a purely sexual/hormonal standpoint, I prefer morning sex.
indianlover Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Well most men I've been with like night/morning. Although the guy I've been seeing recently seems to prefer night because he's not a morning person. Not sure, but I think it depends on the guy's stamina and your relationship (casual vs serious). In my experience serious = less often, but more passionate. Don't know if anyone else has similar experience.
carhill Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 IME, being married, reality is a function of the balance of the demands of life and the commitment to intimacy. A million things pull on each person every day and we each have the power to make choices. I surely can't speak for all men, but the more "serious" I am about a relationship, the more inspired and passionate I am. The trick is finding a lady who is on the same page.
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