illu5i0n Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 well,i have posted about 3 weeks ago a story about my ex-relationship and about the brake up but some facts and situations changed the situation a little. so..after the brake up...my ex-girlfriend meets with her best friend and tells him what happened.She told him that after she broke up with me she said she regret it but she is confused about me and doesn't know what she wants.Also said that she still loves me and after the brake up she misses me kai thinks about me most of the times but didnt contacted me because she was afraid of what i would tell her.The intresting thing is that she said she doesnt has the energy to maintain a relationship now..but she want to do DEFENITELY something with me again at the future.what the heck this means?i just dont get it. Anyhow 1.5 weeks after the brake up i started contacting her..and things where going smoothly telling me that she cares for me too etc sending me some goomorning messages in the morning or even doing some missed calls to my cell(here..that indicates intrest).After that she told me to meet after 3 days because she wanted to see me and talk..but at the same day she told me that she wanted to meet her at some buss station a few minutes later. so i got there but we talked for anything else besides the two of us,just cassual talk.After that we didnt met the day that she had told me because she had to study so she texted me for apologising and says that we will go out together with some friend some days later. finaly we went for coffe with some other friends but she was all the time distant from me..not talking to me etc...writing me off!and after that day...a big writing off... i just dont get it! she invites me out and then she writes me off the whole time? -any ideas about what's going on?-
Geishawhelk Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Yes. It's called 'yanking your chain and keeping you in reserve'. She's showing just enough attention to keep you dangling, but not enough interest to make you confident. Read all the posts teling you about implementing "No Contact" and keep to it, come hell or high water. Close her off, from every possible avenue, delete her name from your 'phone and replace it with "Don't pick up! It's her!" Don't send or receive e-mails. Nothing. Kick her to the kerb and have done with her. Because at this rate, she'll never be done with you.
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