jfk Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 i broke up with my girlfriend 12/1. We have been hangingout since the beginning of november. 3 weeks later i ask her to be my girlfriend. From what ive heard the moment she first saw she liked me. So now were going out having fun spending time with her and her family. Its been a week now and the last time i was with her was over the weekend, she was happy last time i was with her. Monday comes by and my friend tells me she's been acting really weird today she needs to talk to my friend about something. So i have my friend start texting her to see what's up. After texting her my friend tells me it sounds like she wants to break up. Now im thinking WTF. What did i do to make her feel this way? So after my 2nd period of class i text her asking whats going on i hear u want to break up? She texts ya thats what i was going for. your to quiet and im not and theres no connection and i dont want to change you. now im like fine if u wants to be that way then fine. this relationship is over. so now were not talking and i cant stop thinking about why she wanted to break up. Next i hear rumors about her going around texting people saying shes single. this pissed me off so what i did which might seem un called for but i called her mom asking whats going on? she had no idea that we broke up. her mom tells me that she will talk to her. after having her mom talk to her. her mom calls and tells me she never waned to break up. so now im confused. her mom tells me shes going to have her daughter call me and explain whats going on. so now im going to wait and see tomorrow to she what shes going to say to me. i never wanted to break up i only ended it because it seemed liked she wanted to.
Geishawhelk Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Sorry..... What's your point? Are you looking for input, or advice?
carhill Posted December 5, 2008 Posted December 5, 2008 yeah, but Christmas formal OP, relax. It's normal. I only know this because I was abnormal at your age Look around.....see that nice young lady smiling at you. Yeah, her. That's it. Problem solved. It even works like that when you're an old man, except the ladies aren't so young anymore
Your Favourite Smile Posted December 7, 2008 Posted December 7, 2008 If anything, i think more problems and misunderstandings are coming from the fact youre taking information from others, and not the girl herself. When things are passed on to other people, words can change and meanings will be altered (like Chinese Whispers?). I think, if you want to know things properly..you could directly talk to her, find out what SHE wanted.. in her own words. But by reading that anyway, seems like she is far more interested in her status rather than who she is with
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