movingonandon Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Basically, I'm currently seeing a very nice and cute girl, which seems to be really into me. But, htough I like her a lot, I'm not really *that* into her... It is just apparent how *easy* it will be to have her wearing my t-shirts while I'm making breakfast in a very, very near future . But, somehow, I can't bring myself to do it. And all I have to do is keep doing what I've been doing and *pretend just a little*. But, can't pull the trigger ! Needless to say, I'd be more than happy to hang out with her cuteness and perfectly toned by also soft boootieeee:lmao: for some unspecified but generally short period of time. Woof, woof ! I'm putting my man card in an envelope and sending it back to the Central Manhood Administration for proper disposal and the attendant termination of my man-contract . (Well, I guess I can at least sit her down and check if by any slim chance she doesn't feel the same way, in which case I'm taking all of the above back !)
MN randomguy Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Been there, Done.. Er didn't do that, Argh!
xpaperxcutx Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Sorry, couldn't understand your manspeak.
Gremio Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 You confuse me movingon. I'm a male in my mid 20s... and I just don't get you. Why don't you want her? What makes you that "not into her"? I'm different than most men. I do not want to have sex with someone I am intersted in. I prefer to wait, to connect with them and bond. The sex is that much better then.
Enema Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 I think he's saying he wants to give her a hot beef injection... but not go back for seconds.
Author movingonandon Posted December 4, 2008 Author Posted December 4, 2008 You confuse me movingon. I'm a male in my mid 20s... and I just don't get you. Why don't you want her? What makes you that "not into her"? I'm different than most men. I do not want to have sex with someone I am intersted in. I prefer to wait, to connect with them and bond. The sex is that much better then. Well that's the thing, I'd sleep with her in a mili-second. But that basically most (70%-80%) of what I'm interested with her, other than hang out once in a while. I still think she's super cute, and super nice and all, but I already begin to see apparent long term incomparabilities. At the same time, she seems to be getting attached and all (that's not just my ego speaking). There are some girls with which I wouldn't have issues to dump after a romp, but she seems a lot more vulnerable, and also kinda naive (in spite of technically not being too young. (She's 30, and I'm in my 30s. So girls aren't as casual in these things as they were in my 20s, it seems. Hence, the dilemma.) Sounds cheesy, but I sense I might feel like crap if i don't let her go right now.
MN randomguy Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Basically verse 2 of Eminem's Guilty Conscience. She wants a relationship (so he thinks), he wants sex. He is confident he can pull a bait and switch. "Then suddenly his conscience comes into play.":cool:
Gremio Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Tell her how you feel. I know exactly what you mean. I was interested in someone, we met, went on a few dates, and she came onto me. After getting to know her deep down and learning her personal beliefs, I was completely turned off. By that point, she had already started to get attached to me. I know it's very hard, and at times some of my friends (not best friends, moreso acquaintances) call me "gay" because of this. I'm not "gay" because I choose not to sleep around. Sex isn't something I do for fun.
xpaperxcutx Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Well that's the thing, I'd sleep with her in a mili-second. But that basically most (70%-80%) of what I'm interested with her, other than hang out once in a while. I still think she's super cute, and super nice and all, but I already begin to see apparent long term incomparabilities. At the same time, she seems to be getting attached and all (that's not just my ego speaking). There are some girls with which I wouldn't have issues to dump after a romp, but she seems a lot more vulnerable, and also kinda naive (in spite of technically not being too young. (She's 30, and I'm in my 30s. So girls aren't as casual in these things as they were in my 20s, it seems. Hence, the dilemma.) Sounds cheesy, but I sense I might feel like crap if i don't let her go right now. If that's the truth, then you might as well just tell her now that you can't be with her. Most girls who can't handle rejection well will have a complete meltdown. And most likely they'll call you non stop. Have a heart and get yourself someone who would rather go for an ONS rather than long term relationships.
Author movingonandon Posted December 4, 2008 Author Posted December 4, 2008 Tell her how you feel. I know exactly what you mean. I was interested in someone, we met, went on a few dates, and she came onto me. After getting to know her deep down and learning her personal beliefs, I was completely turned off. By that point, she had already started to get attached to me. I know it's very hard, and at times some of my friends (not best friends, moreso acquaintances) call me "gay" because of this. I'm not "gay" because I choose not to sleep around. Sex isn't something I do for fun. Both views on sex co-exist perfectly peacefully in me. But that's not the point, I'll tell her, my side of the story, nothing (um, nothing 'that major') to lose. (Hopefully I got it all wrong. Ideally, she'll get upset about the implicit condescending attitude, and then, in revenge, will crack her innocent exterior to unleash mega-sluttiness on me, and then will sternly request that I never call her again afterwards . Hey, I can dream )
CarrieT Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Sorry, couldn't understand your manspeak. Uhhhhh - Ditto.
kashmir Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Personally, I'd just sleep with her until I found someone that I really liked.
allina Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Sorry, couldn't understand your manspeak. Uhhhhh - Ditto. Third Who actually talks like this?
IrishCarBomb Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 I'm still kinda confused on what the purpose of this post was.... hmmm...
orangehose Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 If that's the truth, then you might as well just tell her now that you can't be with her. Most girls who can't handle rejection well will have a complete meltdown. And most likely they'll call you non stop. Have a heart and get yourself someone who would rather go for an ONS rather than long term relationships. Agreed. If she seems like a nice, 'naive' type, as the OP described, and it's also heading in a relationship-y direction, then it would be kindest to just dump her before using her for her 'soft bootieee'. Ick.
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