princess75 Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Can someone tell me what does it mean when a guy says: He says "I love him" more than he does, and he is confused. What should a girl do? Long distance only for 3 months.....
allina Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 You mean he's telling you that you love him more than he loves you? That's not good at all, but at least he's being honest. He sees that you're more invested in the relationship than he is and he's giving you a warning. Is this someone you have been with for a long time?
Author princess75 Posted December 4, 2008 Author Posted December 4, 2008 Only 9 months..2 in distance...
allina Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 How did you respond when he said this to you? Has he been showing signs that he's not as in to this relationship as you are?
Author princess75 Posted December 4, 2008 Author Posted December 4, 2008 Angry at first..cause he had led me on..but then he kept on saying he is confused...he doesnt know. Sometimes he misses me too much...I let it go...let thing happen. In 2 weeks I am visiting, he is picking me from the airport...Don't know what to do..
allina Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 Do yo feel like the relationship is in danger? Maybe you should have a serious talk with him before you visit?
clandestinidad Posted December 4, 2008 Posted December 4, 2008 In my experience, usually the first thing someone says is the most accurate. Then they feel guilty for saying it/feeling it, so they try to take it back. Saying something like that and then blaming it on 'confusion' is typical. He's not into the relationship and doesn't have a deep connection to you, and he feels guilty because he knows he's going to hurt you when he ends the relationship. That's why he's comparing his feelings for you, to your feelings to him. I hope that helps
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