km842002 Posted September 9, 2003 Posted September 9, 2003 Ok, so I'll start at the beginning. Last Monday a friend of mine brought a bunch of his buddies to hangout in my room before a party we were having at my school. There was about 10 guys and like 4 girls so the ratio was a bit off but whatever. So this one guy kinda seemed intrested in my so we being talking and joking around and stuff and basically talk the rest of the time we're in my room. When we were all ready to go to the party we left and I walked with him and talked with him about different stuff like school and such. There was a brief conversation about our heights being different and if I cared and I said "no". So we get to the line for the party and were still with each other and he basically stuck by myside from that point on. We get into the party and dance and even made out a little. There were some point during the dancing that a few friends would come up to me and say hey most being guys. (Not really sure if this could be a factor) So the party ends and we walk over to the side to wait for his friends and such and at this point I still had friends coming up and say hello since we hadn't seen each other all summer. One happened to be a guy that I kinda dated the year before that the current guy had gotten into a fight with at some point during the past year, which I had no clue about. While we're waiting his friend, who was also kinda into me gave me a hug and kinda started to kiss my neck which I basically pulled away from 'cause I wasn't interested in him. So we leave the party and start to walk back to the car. While walking he tells me he hasn't dated in 2 years and asked me hjow he was doing with me and all that. Basically the flirting went on. He did at one point tell me that he kinda got upset about me talking to the guy he had gotten into a fight with and for what his friend did. Which I tried to reassure him that everything was ok with us. Also while we're walking he suggest that i call him and I reply that he could call me, which then gets the response that he didn't have the number and I said "well you didn't ask"and then he does and I give him the number. He also said something about me giving him the wrong number and I mentioned that two of his friends, since I had know them as friends before, also had the number so if he was scared that it was wrong he could check with them. So we say good-bye. So throughout the week I get no call and think that he kinda sucks, but say whatever. Then that Friday as planned I went to go visit his frat 'cause they had told me to go to the party they were having that day. So I get there and see him by the pool but was kinda in the middle of a conversation so I didn't go over and by the time I turned around he had disappeared. I figured that he saw me didn't really care and left to go somewhere else. So the night passes on and I see him emerge from the hallway and our eyes meet and he says hey so I go over to him. He ends up telling me that he had been sleeping all week and missed his first 3 days of class and was in his room resting. BTW he looked like crap also so I thought he was telling the truth. I also told him that I had seen him when I first got there and he "said" that he didn't see me and asked why I didn't come over and say anything. I told him I was in the middle of a conversation and by the time it was done he was gone. As the party continued we kinda talked to other people, but at one point I went up to him and asked him if he was even going to try to sit and talk with me for the rest of the night and he promptly put his arm around my sholder and we sat on the couch and we talked about random stuff and so on. He then asked if I wanted to go sit in his room 'cause it was getting REALLY loud in there so I said sure. It was completly non-sketch and we sat down and talked and watched TV until I had to leave. We said good-bye once again. The next his friend invited my friend and I to a party in the city so we went back to the house, plus I left my jacket in "my guys" room. So I get there and go upstairs and ask him if he has my jacket and he says yeah and gets it for me while telling me he was going to call me and tell me he had it. I said thanks for keeping it and go back to his friends room. After a while I got bored and walked back upstairs and asked if he minded if I hughout with him for a while. He said of course he didn't mind. So I sat down and we talked and watched TV until it was tieme to leave for the party, which he wasn't planning on going to but still got dressed and came out with us. There ended up being an issue withthe party and we ended up not going and just went back to the house. His friend and my friend stay downstairs in the living room while we went up to his friends room and sat down. We sat there talking for a bit and kinda started to doze off since it was like 1:45 ish in the morning. We took a brief nap just sitting on the couch kinda cuddled up together. Then he kinda woke up and said that he should really go to bed. So we went to see if my friend was ready and she was so we left. Sometime during the night when I questioned him about not calling he told me he thought it was fake and dialed it. Of course my phjone went off and he said "no youhave my number and you can call me". So the question is should I call him after all these kinda mixed messages???
Yeti Posted September 9, 2003 Posted September 9, 2003 go for it... give him a buzz first he might enjoy that, and it might give him the edge to start calling you too. like me, he might be one of those guys that enjoys the women coming on to them... and find it a little harder when they have to come onto the women, even if it's only dialing a phone... he might be sitting there right now with your number in one hand and the phone in the other, trying to decide if you really want to hear from him... so call him, if it seems that fact that he really doesn't seem to care that you called, don't call back... - Yeti
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